"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl at gym keeps staring at me

onlyseveninches

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Hello,

There is this girl at the gym who keeps staring at me.
Whenever she walks by, she turns back to look at me.
Whenever she is working on a machine, she is staring
right at me consistently.

The other day, what is weird is she is staring at me,
but she had some nerdy guy with her at the gym,
who I think is her boyfriend, yet she kept staring at me
when I was there.

Should I go up to her and say hi?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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onlyseveninches

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Last of the Alphas said:
Are you a troll?

Don't ask stupid questions like this.

No,

why is it inappropriate to talk to girls at the gym who stare
you at consistently?

she walked by me while I was working on a machine, and she
turned her head back, to look at me
 

adam225

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Do her up her ass.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GS750

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Grab your balls and talk to her. That's an invitation to do so.
 

dutchmaster

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wip out your c0ck next times shes starring
 

princess_124

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You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
 

GS750

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princess_124 said:
You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
You love it and you know it. ;)
 

Emotionist

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onlyseveninches said:
Hello,

There is this girl at the gym who keeps staring at me.
Whenever she walks by, she turns back to look at me.
Whenever she is working on a machine, she is staring
right at me consistently.

The other day, what is weird is she is staring at me,
but she had some nerdy guy with her at the gym,
who I think is her boyfriend, yet she kept staring at me
when I was there.

Should I go up to her and say hi?
onlyseveninches, how old are you?

You already figured that you WANT to talk to her and you DONT KNOW what to say or to do. Read some motivational stuff here on this forum to get yourself a bit started.

Take this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16929

and search for more... !! mostly older stuff from 2000-2006, almost everything is said there what you need to know.

When you are theoretically more in the stuff ask again when CERTAIN things dont work for you :up: People get annoyed to get asked such questions bc most of them were trolls themselves in the beginning. :crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GS750

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Pics or GTFO. Make em classy please.
 

Krueg

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Maybe she's wondering "Who's that guy always staring at me!?" :nervous:

OR

Tell her to take a pitcure cause it will last longer!! :rolleyes:
 

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onlyseveninches said:
Hello,

There is this girl at the gym who keeps staring at me.
Whenever she walks by, she turns back to look at me.
Whenever she is working on a machine, she is staring
right at me consistently.

The other day, what is weird is she is staring at me,
but she had some nerdy guy with her at the gym,
who I think is her boyfriend, yet she kept staring at me
when I was there.

Should I go up to her and say hi?
you sound like my friend, go talk to that ****ing little slvt and get up in that pvssy babbbbyyy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thunder_god

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princess_124 said:
You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
GTFO!!!
 

skinnyguy

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princess_124 said:
You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
Sorry, we will talk about vagina too.

I also want to see your pic
 

mangotot

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AMOG the nerd and get the girl.

(And Princess...why are you still loitering in the mens locker room?).
 
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