Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl at gym keeps staring at me

onlyseveninches

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Hello,

There is this girl at the gym who keeps staring at me.
Whenever she walks by, she turns back to look at me.
Whenever she is working on a machine, she is staring
right at me consistently.

The other day, what is weird is she is staring at me,
but she had some nerdy guy with her at the gym,
who I think is her boyfriend, yet she kept staring at me
when I was there.

Should I go up to her and say hi?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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onlyseveninches

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Last of the Alphas said:
Are you a troll?

Don't ask stupid questions like this.

No,

why is it inappropriate to talk to girls at the gym who stare
you at consistently?

she walked by me while I was working on a machine, and she
turned her head back, to look at me
 

adam225

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Do her up her ass.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GS750

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Grab your balls and talk to her. That's an invitation to do so.
 

dutchmaster

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wip out your c0ck next times shes starring
 

princess_124

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You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
 

GS750

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princess_124 said:
You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
You love it and you know it. ;)
 

Emotionist

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onlyseveninches said:
Hello,

There is this girl at the gym who keeps staring at me.
Whenever she walks by, she turns back to look at me.
Whenever she is working on a machine, she is staring
right at me consistently.

The other day, what is weird is she is staring at me,
but she had some nerdy guy with her at the gym,
who I think is her boyfriend, yet she kept staring at me
when I was there.

Should I go up to her and say hi?
onlyseveninches, how old are you?

You already figured that you WANT to talk to her and you DONT KNOW what to say or to do. Read some motivational stuff here on this forum to get yourself a bit started.

Take this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16929

and search for more... !! mostly older stuff from 2000-2006, almost everything is said there what you need to know.

When you are theoretically more in the stuff ask again when CERTAIN things dont work for you :up: People get annoyed to get asked such questions bc most of them were trolls themselves in the beginning. :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GS750

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Pics or GTFO. Make em classy please.
 

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Maybe she's wondering "Who's that guy always staring at me!?" :nervous:

OR

Tell her to take a pitcure cause it will last longer!! :rolleyes:
 

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onlyseveninches said:
Hello,

There is this girl at the gym who keeps staring at me.
Whenever she walks by, she turns back to look at me.
Whenever she is working on a machine, she is staring
right at me consistently.

The other day, what is weird is she is staring at me,
but she had some nerdy guy with her at the gym,
who I think is her boyfriend, yet she kept staring at me
when I was there.

Should I go up to her and say hi?
you sound like my friend, go talk to that ****ing little slvt and get up in that pvssy babbbbyyy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thunder_god

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princess_124 said:
You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
GTFO!!!
 

skinnyguy

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princess_124 said:
You guys are seriously so rude....can't you be nicer to a new user?

By the way, why is everybody talking about penis/balls here?
Sorry, we will talk about vagina too.

I also want to see your pic
 

mangotot

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AMOG the nerd and get the girl.

(And Princess...why are you still loitering in the mens locker room?).
 
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