"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So meet this 24 years old at my work congress.

I feel she's into me, check me out, noticed me when i leave and such.

We talk at the table with her colleagues and mine .. All good. She include me in the topic discussion.

Than we alone, tell her lets walk outside of the resto... She says it might be cold.

Say there a cool indoor pool. We head there, chat with other colleagues.

Than we alone: she says.. I am tired. Might go to bed or go see what the others do. She mentions she has a boyfriend.

I ask her if she's in a single room (alone). She says yes.

Okay, i am heading to bed too.

We on the same flood, walk her to her room. She tells me good night. She keep laughing in a small nervous way/or shy.

I feel she is into me. But she did mention the boyfriend and made no invite for me to enter the room other than me walking her there. My guts tell me i had an opening, and she's into me. You know when you know you should make a move.

What's stopping me is : 1. she mentionned boyfriend.. few times 2. its a work congress with the office of my region/state.. so its alot more monitored in terms of work relations. (i did hook up and go laid with coworkers but they were always from different state or hours plane ride 3. it might be just me making mistake (oneitis)

i am wondering if i should knock on her door with a bottle of wine lol.

good point is: i look sharp lol.

When they mention a boyfriend in the convo.. I guess there is nothing to do about it
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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