"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tony-montana

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hey,

this might be one dumb ass thread but i gotta hear some opinions...

i just moved to this state im in now couple weeks ago. last week me and my aunty went to this clothing store and she knows the girl who owns/works there... i was pretty quiet the whole time (20mins-aunty looking around) but toward the end my aunty was telling her that i just moved here and she looked at me and we spoke a bit. not long though. a week goes by, today... we went back there and saw her. i was quiet again but she did look at me a couple times (damn her tits are some fkn big!) shes vietnamese (asian looking but with big tits) - anyway... we spoke again toward the end she was telling me how shes scared of planes cause shes going away next week or something to her home overseas cause her dad died. shes going for two weeks then coming back.

probably bad timing... but her number was on the reciept and errm, i was thinking maybe what if i called her or txt? she's known my aunty for a while ... my mom was with us too and my mom spoke to her, and massaged her arms a bit cause she does massage as a job... gave her a card and they might be seeing each other again.

it's probably weird isnt it? freaky or so? gonna be seeing her again wednesday before new years with my aunty. any opinions?

p.s.: my mom asked her something along the lines "your husband, something something."

she said im not married..... i'm single. maybe so i could hear? :S
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well i said her number was on the receipt.. so i got it from that. i dont care if she says no.. shes just some girl with big tits. nothing special. might just text her for fun see what happens.
 

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tony-montana said:
well i said her number was on the receipt.. so i got it from that. i dont care if she says no.. shes just some girl with big tits. nothing special. might just text her for fun see what happens.
What I don't understand is how her number got on the receipt. Did she put it on there,or is her number on every receipt? If it's on every one,then it's probably her business number. Anyway,I would not call her. If you talked to her first,then asked for her number and she had told you it was on the receipt,then fine,go ahead. But if she's home,then all of the sudden,out of the blue some random guy just calls her asking for a date,that could come off as being a bit creepy. And just imagine the awkwardness for your aunt who knows this girl.
 

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Igetit! said:
If you talked to her first,then asked for her number and she had told you it was on the receipt,then fine,go ahead. But if she's home,then all of the sudden,out of the blue some random guy just calls her asking for a date,that could come off as being a bit creepy. And just imagine the awkwardness for your aunt who knows this girl.
exactly. Women want confidence in a man and if you just call her from the # you saw on the receipt you will reek of afcness, weakness and yes creepyness.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol, too late. already texted her. let's just call it a little experiment. i'm not too worried if it doesn't happen. it was just for a casual fuk or something.
 

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I should smack you upside your head!

Dude, initiate coversation...you were scared! that # on the receipt is a business #. Get HER digits. BTW you made it harder by showing AFC qualities in the beginning.

A true DJ is ready to create attraction and very confident in himself. You were Mr. Timid boy! Think with your penis!

At this rate it looks like you'll fantasize about those boobs and your hand will help you.

Dude, you need to strike while the iron's hot! If a girl smiles at you, take action. If you get rejected, that's ok. There's no way to block rejection forever. Those who are rich, famous, Mr. universe, have Barry White's voice, or a combination of these still get rejected.

You've gained more experience in the game. Don't let it get you down, keep fighting! Keep your head up!

Peace out!:up:
 
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