"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tony-montana

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hey,

this might be one dumb ass thread but i gotta hear some opinions...

i just moved to this state im in now couple weeks ago. last week me and my aunty went to this clothing store and she knows the girl who owns/works there... i was pretty quiet the whole time (20mins-aunty looking around) but toward the end my aunty was telling her that i just moved here and she looked at me and we spoke a bit. not long though. a week goes by, today... we went back there and saw her. i was quiet again but she did look at me a couple times (damn her tits are some fkn big!) shes vietnamese (asian looking but with big tits) - anyway... we spoke again toward the end she was telling me how shes scared of planes cause shes going away next week or something to her home overseas cause her dad died. shes going for two weeks then coming back.

probably bad timing... but her number was on the reciept and errm, i was thinking maybe what if i called her or txt? she's known my aunty for a while ... my mom was with us too and my mom spoke to her, and massaged her arms a bit cause she does massage as a job... gave her a card and they might be seeing each other again.

it's probably weird isnt it? freaky or so? gonna be seeing her again wednesday before new years with my aunty. any opinions?

p.s.: my mom asked her something along the lines "your husband, something something."

she said im not married..... i'm single. maybe so i could hear? :S
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tony-montana

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well i said her number was on the receipt.. so i got it from that. i dont care if she says no.. shes just some girl with big tits. nothing special. might just text her for fun see what happens.
 

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tony-montana said:
well i said her number was on the receipt.. so i got it from that. i dont care if she says no.. shes just some girl with big tits. nothing special. might just text her for fun see what happens.
What I don't understand is how her number got on the receipt. Did she put it on there,or is her number on every receipt? If it's on every one,then it's probably her business number. Anyway,I would not call her. If you talked to her first,then asked for her number and she had told you it was on the receipt,then fine,go ahead. But if she's home,then all of the sudden,out of the blue some random guy just calls her asking for a date,that could come off as being a bit creepy. And just imagine the awkwardness for your aunt who knows this girl.
 

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Igetit! said:
If you talked to her first,then asked for her number and she had told you it was on the receipt,then fine,go ahead. But if she's home,then all of the sudden,out of the blue some random guy just calls her asking for a date,that could come off as being a bit creepy. And just imagine the awkwardness for your aunt who knows this girl.
exactly. Women want confidence in a man and if you just call her from the # you saw on the receipt you will reek of afcness, weakness and yes creepyness.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol, too late. already texted her. let's just call it a little experiment. i'm not too worried if it doesn't happen. it was just for a casual fuk or something.
 

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I should smack you upside your head!

Dude, initiate coversation...you were scared! that # on the receipt is a business #. Get HER digits. BTW you made it harder by showing AFC qualities in the beginning.

A true DJ is ready to create attraction and very confident in himself. You were Mr. Timid boy! Think with your penis!

At this rate it looks like you'll fantasize about those boobs and your hand will help you.

Dude, you need to strike while the iron's hot! If a girl smiles at you, take action. If you get rejected, that's ok. There's no way to block rejection forever. Those who are rich, famous, Mr. universe, have Barry White's voice, or a combination of these still get rejected.

You've gained more experience in the game. Don't let it get you down, keep fighting! Keep your head up!

Peace out!:up:
 
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