"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl at a bus stop

DTR90

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The other day I was walking down to the bus stop after University, and as I was stood waiting to cross over the road this girl comes up and stands right close to me, also waiting to cross over.

Then as I'm just stood at the stop, she randomly asks me how long the bus would take to get into town, even though the stop has clear notices of how long it in fact will take. There was one or two others there, but she asked me instead. She was also asking me how much it would cost, even though she probably knows, although she had missed her train so this was why she was getting the bus instead.

I know this probably means **** all.:eek: But the girl in question was quite good looking, and I dunno, maybe it was slight signs of interest she was showing. And maybe if I see her around campus some more I could get to know her a bit better?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr Wright

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Strike whilst the iron is hot. Instead of going home and basically masturbating over the thought of a girl talking to you. Next time be ready to flirt with her, you may never see her again so dont count on it.
 

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I wanna tell you what you wanna hear but I wont. It was probably just cordial. However, even if it wasn't, you didn't capitalize.

Since its a campus, if you see her out at night approach her. You have an easy way to break the ice since you've already interacted with her once.
 

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I know exactly what would have happened. Want to know? It's a mystery. There is no way of knowing what could have happened with this girl. She could have talked to you because she found you attractive and wanted to get your attention. Or she could have been a girl who wanted to know details about the bus after missing her train. This is the biggest burden of not approaching: wondering what could have been. And let me tell you something: it sucks. Learn from this experience and make your move next time. You really have nothing to lose. Would you fear men who are smaller and skinnier than you? No. Then why the heck would you fear a woman?

Don't make me say this again :trouble:
 

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Mr Wright said:
Strike whilst the iron is hot. Instead of going home and basically masturbating over the thought of a girl talking to you. Next time be ready to flirt with her, you may never see her again so dont count on it.
thats exactly right, you introduce yourself get her name, ask her for her major and what she likes to do on the weekends and then suggest to hang out....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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