"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl asks you to do something..you don't know how to do..HOW TO RESPOND?

shark

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My girlfriend (recently started going out) brought up hickeys. It was OVBIOUS she wanted one based on how she was talking, looking, and pointing. For some reason, I NEVER gotten or gave a hickey. IDK why I never have as i h/u with a good number of girls in the past. Then she asked if i ever gave one. I said no, but i gotten one ( i lied, it just came out) so i asked if she REALLY wants one and she said she doesnt care if idk what im doing b/c im her boyfriend. So i "tried" for about a minute and she didn't say it was bad or great. How should i have played this out, b/c i can't think of the DJ WAY OF THIS SITUATION...

thanks

EDIT (THOUGHT UPDATE)

***EDIT ---Thinking more about it..I tried, it was pathetic i'd say. She said i wasn't that bad. But..i now realize i did it wrong (im cool and looked it up online oyy..) and i kinda think she wanted the hicky to feel good about us..kinda bad..maybe show it off a bit. Now that i didn't do it, maybe she real dissapointed..and i prob wont get a chance to see her till next weeekned, MAYBE.

SHOULD I BRING THIS HICKEY BUISNESS UP? IF SO, HOW?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shark

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No, i don't want advice on how too. I want advice on how to RESPOND to something like this.

Why the hell are some of you people on these boards if you're just going to be a jackass. Either try and post a helpful post or back the **** off.

Thanks :)
 
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