"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl asks you to do something..you don't know how to do..HOW TO RESPOND?

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My girlfriend (recently started going out) brought up hickeys. It was OVBIOUS she wanted one based on how she was talking, looking, and pointing. For some reason, I NEVER gotten or gave a hickey. IDK why I never have as i h/u with a good number of girls in the past. Then she asked if i ever gave one. I said no, but i gotten one ( i lied, it just came out) so i asked if she REALLY wants one and she said she doesnt care if idk what im doing b/c im her boyfriend. So i "tried" for about a minute and she didn't say it was bad or great. How should i have played this out, b/c i can't think of the DJ WAY OF THIS SITUATION...

thanks

EDIT (THOUGHT UPDATE)

***EDIT ---Thinking more about it..I tried, it was pathetic i'd say. She said i wasn't that bad. But..i now realize i did it wrong (im cool and looked it up online oyy..) and i kinda think she wanted the hicky to feel good about us..kinda bad..maybe show it off a bit. Now that i didn't do it, maybe she real dissapointed..and i prob wont get a chance to see her till next weeekned, MAYBE.

SHOULD I BRING THIS HICKEY BUISNESS UP? IF SO, HOW?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, i don't want advice on how too. I want advice on how to RESPOND to something like this.

Why the hell are some of you people on these boards if you're just going to be a jackass. Either try and post a helpful post or back the **** off.

Thanks :)
 
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