"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl asks you to do something..you don't know how to do..HOW TO RESPOND?

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My girlfriend (recently started going out) brought up hickeys. It was OVBIOUS she wanted one based on how she was talking, looking, and pointing. For some reason, I NEVER gotten or gave a hickey. IDK why I never have as i h/u with a good number of girls in the past. Then she asked if i ever gave one. I said no, but i gotten one ( i lied, it just came out) so i asked if she REALLY wants one and she said she doesnt care if idk what im doing b/c im her boyfriend. So i "tried" for about a minute and she didn't say it was bad or great. How should i have played this out, b/c i can't think of the DJ WAY OF THIS SITUATION...

thanks

EDIT (THOUGHT UPDATE)

***EDIT ---Thinking more about it..I tried, it was pathetic i'd say. She said i wasn't that bad. But..i now realize i did it wrong (im cool and looked it up online oyy..) and i kinda think she wanted the hicky to feel good about us..kinda bad..maybe show it off a bit. Now that i didn't do it, maybe she real dissapointed..and i prob wont get a chance to see her till next weeekned, MAYBE.

SHOULD I BRING THIS HICKEY BUISNESS UP? IF SO, HOW?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No, i don't want advice on how too. I want advice on how to RESPOND to something like this.

Why the hell are some of you people on these boards if you're just going to be a jackass. Either try and post a helpful post or back the **** off.

Thanks :)
 
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