"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl asks unusual question

The LadyKiller

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I was talking to a HB at work that I have not gotten intimate with (yet). We received an e-mail about some 2014 medical/heath form we need to fill out. HB mistakes me for someone who can understand the questions and begins to dig into what I would fill out.

She begins talking about how we can get discounts for prescription drugs (through the health plan) and asks if I take any. I said I take a couple (like most people). She immediately asks if it's for Herpes, without hesitation. I said no. She was half-jokingly insistent it was for some STD until I told her the real, harmless reason. I have never been asked that before, so I thought it was somewhat unusual.

I've read here that if HBs start asking you questions related to sex, that's where their mind is. Is this an example of that, or am I simply overthinking?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PokerStar

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maybe you just look like someone who has an STD:crazy:

JK.

Honestly, whoever says to me that they can get discount drugs is either a drug dealer or a drug user. please, stay away from both.

or

its her creative way of flirting with you. some girls are not very good at flirting so that could just be her way.

it could be mean a number of things.

and remember dont crap where you eat.
 

VladPatton

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That was your chance to keep her guessing and to make her burst with wonder. Next time don't say a thing and let her get all wound up about it. However, this being a work chic (and a drugged out one at that), it should nullify all of your sexual intentions. Like PokerStar said, don't crap where you eat.
 

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She immediately asks if it's for Herpes, without hesitation.
PokerStar said:
its her creative way of flirting with you. some girls are not very good at flirting so that could just be her way.
This dude.

Whether or not you want to bang this chick, you still need to act like a man. This was a flirt or a $hit test or whatever, either way, she through something out at ya. My response: o_0 "why, is that what your prescriptions are for?" Then give a look like you're backing away. Turn the "half-joking tease" back on her.

If she asks you a dumb question, don't ever respond with a direct answer, or else this will happen:
I said no. She was half-jokingly insistent it was for some STD until I told her the real, harmless reason.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The LadyKiller

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Appreciate the responses. There were other people next to us and I was in the middle of an assignment, so C&F wasn't the first thing on my mind. Vlad, I'm not pretending I have an STD. No reason to. She flirts with me plenty as PokerStar said, probably tied into that.
 
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