"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl asks unusual question

The LadyKiller

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I was talking to a HB at work that I have not gotten intimate with (yet). We received an e-mail about some 2014 medical/heath form we need to fill out. HB mistakes me for someone who can understand the questions and begins to dig into what I would fill out.

She begins talking about how we can get discounts for prescription drugs (through the health plan) and asks if I take any. I said I take a couple (like most people). She immediately asks if it's for Herpes, without hesitation. I said no. She was half-jokingly insistent it was for some STD until I told her the real, harmless reason. I have never been asked that before, so I thought it was somewhat unusual.

I've read here that if HBs start asking you questions related to sex, that's where their mind is. Is this an example of that, or am I simply overthinking?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PokerStar

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maybe you just look like someone who has an STD:crazy:

JK.

Honestly, whoever says to me that they can get discount drugs is either a drug dealer or a drug user. please, stay away from both.

or

its her creative way of flirting with you. some girls are not very good at flirting so that could just be her way.

it could be mean a number of things.

and remember dont crap where you eat.
 

VladPatton

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That was your chance to keep her guessing and to make her burst with wonder. Next time don't say a thing and let her get all wound up about it. However, this being a work chic (and a drugged out one at that), it should nullify all of your sexual intentions. Like PokerStar said, don't crap where you eat.
 

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She immediately asks if it's for Herpes, without hesitation.
PokerStar said:
its her creative way of flirting with you. some girls are not very good at flirting so that could just be her way.
This dude.

Whether or not you want to bang this chick, you still need to act like a man. This was a flirt or a $hit test or whatever, either way, she through something out at ya. My response: o_0 "why, is that what your prescriptions are for?" Then give a look like you're backing away. Turn the "half-joking tease" back on her.

If she asks you a dumb question, don't ever respond with a direct answer, or else this will happen:
I said no. She was half-jokingly insistent it was for some STD until I told her the real, harmless reason.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The LadyKiller

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Appreciate the responses. There were other people next to us and I was in the middle of an assignment, so C&F wasn't the first thing on my mind. Vlad, I'm not pretending I have an STD. No reason to. She flirts with me plenty as PokerStar said, probably tied into that.
 
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