Enjoy it while it still lasts, and by that I mean fvck her as much as you can because after the sex that's when the real sh!t starts. You might think you know her based on the these dates you've had but after sex woman usually start opening up more and that's the time you'll see the red flags. You'll start hearing her say stuff that will leave you thinking wtf??....all I'm saying is she might be the real thing or you just a potential rebound after she dumps her current boyfriend.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl asks ME out and shows extremely high IL, thoughts?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
EyeBRollin
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Treat her the same as any other chick. See her once per week, after you call her to set up a date. If she blows up your phone, make the date right then and there.
If she's crazy, she won't be able to wait a day or two before blowing up your phone. She'll show her ass.
Also, have sex with her in the next date or two.
If she's crazy, she won't be able to wait a day or two before blowing up your phone. She'll show her ass.
Also, have sex with her in the next date or two.
spiegel549
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What a wide range of answers, thank you for the response.
Update from my last post and what I have learned about her:
The girl is 22yrs old. Hard working, nerdy/quirky, definitely a unique chick. So far I have seen her 3 times and she has blown me away with how down to earth she is. She brought me to a Jazz show over the weekend (paid for the show and drinks) because I bought her dinner the other night. Cool, I wasn't going to argue. We then went to the beach and she made this incredible home made lunch with fresh fruit, dessert, the whole nine. It was really good, I was impressed.
Some of the posts no offense are a bit to the extreme on being jaded. Assuming she is some crazy Cluster B because she is showing high IL I don't feel is a good mindset to have. Now with that said, it is still early to say.
She has been consistently down to earth, thoughtful, fun, generous, and very open about family and past relationships. Couldn't really ask for anything more just yet.
I have been setting the pace for this because I am spinning other plates at the time. I will keep you all posted. I am so far intrigued to see where this all goes.
Update from my last post and what I have learned about her:
The girl is 22yrs old. Hard working, nerdy/quirky, definitely a unique chick. So far I have seen her 3 times and she has blown me away with how down to earth she is. She brought me to a Jazz show over the weekend (paid for the show and drinks) because I bought her dinner the other night. Cool, I wasn't going to argue. We then went to the beach and she made this incredible home made lunch with fresh fruit, dessert, the whole nine. It was really good, I was impressed.
Some of the posts no offense are a bit to the extreme on being jaded. Assuming she is some crazy Cluster B because she is showing high IL I don't feel is a good mindset to have. Now with that said, it is still early to say.
She has been consistently down to earth, thoughtful, fun, generous, and very open about family and past relationships. Couldn't really ask for anything more just yet.
I have been setting the pace for this because I am spinning other plates at the time. I will keep you all posted. I am so far intrigued to see where this all goes.
Just enjoy your time together and go with the flow would be my advice. Also i think you did well by letting her pay. The more she invests in you, the better.
Floydispink01
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Good for you OP. I would treat this girl with caution however if you are using words like 'incredible', 'blown me away' and 'i am so far intrigued' regarding a chlck. Try not to set your expectations too high but as the above poster said - go with the flow.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bingo-Player
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im sorry but sex is the the only true indicator of interest when it comes to women
from what i can tell this one is yet to let you sample her goods
so therefore you need to keep your composure because women aint dull and if she wanted you that much she would want to claim your seed as quickly as possible
from what i can tell this one is yet to let you sample her goods
so therefore you need to keep your composure because women aint dull and if she wanted you that much she would want to claim your seed as quickly as possible