"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl asks me "do you spit game"?

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this is how she came to this.

I work at a grocery store as a checker. My bagger was a chick. She was telling another bagger next to her how 2 guys came up to her and asked for her number. She said "NO" to them because she was already taken (she is). After I heard that, out of nowhere i said it in a flirty way "That's not what she said to me".

After everyone left, she asks me "do spit game?"

I couldn't think of anything else to say but

"no, i just lock myself up in my room and play video games" surcastically

Thats a first time i got a question like that. I couldve answered it by saying "give me your number and you'll see" DAMNIT
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i would have said "why do you ask, what doest that help you to know" sarcastically
 
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verysuave said:
After everyone left, she asks me "do spit game?"
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Sounds to me like she listens to Tariq Nasheed. At least she's schooled in the bland bullsh!t most guys will throw her way.

Step it up brother.
 
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well, when i flirt, my flirtings don't sound desperate but its got impact
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KarmaSutra said:
Sounds to me like she listens to Tariq Nasheed. At least she's schooled in the bland bullsh!t most guys will throw her way.

Step it up brother.
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did tariq tell women to do that???? how are the guys supposed to respond
 
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"Spitting is a dirty habit"
"Do you spit game?"

I was asked by a woman once. That's how I replied.
 
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Your reply

"Do you swallow?"
 
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Mercenary said:
"Spitting is a dirty habit"
"Do you spit game?"

I was asked by a woman once. That's how I replied.
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why did she ask you this? were gaming or something? what situation were you in? tnx
 
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verysuave said:
why did she ask you this? were gaming or something? what situation were you in? tnx
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I was at a club. I'm sure that she had seen me talking to other women that night and saw that they were into me. When I was talking to her after a while she just asked it. It was a last minute resistance mechanism.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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