"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl asks me "do you spit game"?

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this is how she came to this.

I work at a grocery store as a checker. My bagger was a chick. She was telling another bagger next to her how 2 guys came up to her and asked for her number. She said "NO" to them because she was already taken (she is). After I heard that, out of nowhere i said it in a flirty way "That's not what she said to me".

After everyone left, she asks me "do spit game?"

I couldn't think of anything else to say but

"no, i just lock myself up in my room and play video games" surcastically

Thats a first time i got a question like that. I couldve answered it by saying "give me your number and you'll see" DAMNIT
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i would have said "why do you ask, what doest that help you to know" sarcastically
 
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verysuave said:
After everyone left, she asks me "do spit game?"
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Sounds to me like she listens to Tariq Nasheed. At least she's schooled in the bland bullsh!t most guys will throw her way.

Step it up brother.
 
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well, when i flirt, my flirtings don't sound desperate but its got impact
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KarmaSutra said:
Sounds to me like she listens to Tariq Nasheed. At least she's schooled in the bland bullsh!t most guys will throw her way.

Step it up brother.
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did tariq tell women to do that???? how are the guys supposed to respond
 
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"Spitting is a dirty habit"
"Do you spit game?"

I was asked by a woman once. That's how I replied.
 
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Your reply

"Do you swallow?"
 
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Mercenary said:
"Spitting is a dirty habit"
"Do you spit game?"

I was asked by a woman once. That's how I replied.
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why did she ask you this? were gaming or something? what situation were you in? tnx
 
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verysuave said:
why did she ask you this? were gaming or something? what situation were you in? tnx
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I was at a club. I'm sure that she had seen me talking to other women that night and saw that they were into me. When I was talking to her after a while she just asked it. It was a last minute resistance mechanism.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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