"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl Asks If I Enjoyed Time With Her

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I banged the **** out of some girl I met today at her house for a good two hours, and honestly I felt I had a great time with her. Shes pretty chilling. But she called me tonight and she kept asking me if I had a good time with her and I really didn't wanna answer. I still did and told her I had fun. Then she asked me if I enjoyed the sex and again I didn't wanna answer...what would you guys do about this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sexxyback

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i'd just tell her i enjoyed the sex. what's the big deal.
 

matygee

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I did but at the same time...I don't like to reveal to much.
 

ValleyDJing

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You're supposed to say "Yes, now get you're sweet ass over here so we can do it again!" Don't be dumb man.
 

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Why dont u tell us the story of how u were able to pick her up
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scorched

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Ratisson said:
Why dont u tell us the story of how u were able to pick her up
haha yeah, what he said, ahhaha wow, owned!!!!1111one
 

Lust

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"Sure did, but i reckon we can do better" *Wink*
 

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cool

Well i just don't say anything cause i want her to come back for some more.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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knglerxt said:
Yeah. I call BS on this one.

lol. bull****?

I asked her to skip school so I could reach over to her house and the rest is history. I was there from 12 to 4 and boy did i have a good time, I had an amazing time and I'm surprised and curious to why should would have to ask. Did I look unsatisfied? maybe...I have a huge resivour of sexual stamina and I don't get tired easily. I don't know if thats something to brag about maybe you guys are the same maybe not. But I just found it weird that she had to ask and a dude like me really dosen't like answering female questions. If I wanna tell her I'd tell her but I didn't think she needed to be told I thought it was obvious.
 
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