"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl Asks If I Enjoyed Time With Her

matygee

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I banged the **** out of some girl I met today at her house for a good two hours, and honestly I felt I had a great time with her. Shes pretty chilling. But she called me tonight and she kept asking me if I had a good time with her and I really didn't wanna answer. I still did and told her I had fun. Then she asked me if I enjoyed the sex and again I didn't wanna answer...what would you guys do about this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sexxyback

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i'd just tell her i enjoyed the sex. what's the big deal.
 

matygee

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I did but at the same time...I don't like to reveal to much.
 

ValleyDJing

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You're supposed to say "Yes, now get you're sweet ass over here so we can do it again!" Don't be dumb man.
 

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Why dont u tell us the story of how u were able to pick her up
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scorched

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Ratisson said:
Why dont u tell us the story of how u were able to pick her up
haha yeah, what he said, ahhaha wow, owned!!!!1111one
 

Lust

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"Sure did, but i reckon we can do better" *Wink*
 

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cool

Well i just don't say anything cause i want her to come back for some more.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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knglerxt said:
Yeah. I call BS on this one.

lol. bull****?

I asked her to skip school so I could reach over to her house and the rest is history. I was there from 12 to 4 and boy did i have a good time, I had an amazing time and I'm surprised and curious to why should would have to ask. Did I look unsatisfied? maybe...I have a huge resivour of sexual stamina and I don't get tired easily. I don't know if thats something to brag about maybe you guys are the same maybe not. But I just found it weird that she had to ask and a dude like me really dosen't like answering female questions. If I wanna tell her I'd tell her but I didn't think she needed to be told I thought it was obvious.
 
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