I banged the **** out of some girl I met today at her house for a good two hours, and honestly I felt I had a great time with her. Shes pretty chilling. But she called me tonight and she kept asking me if I had a good time with her and I really didn't wanna answer. I still did and told her I had fun. Then she asked me if I enjoyed the sex and again I didn't wanna answer...what would you guys do about this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl Asks If I Enjoyed Time With Her
- Thread starter matygee
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
You're supposed to say "Yes, now get you're sweet ass over here so we can do it again!" Don't be dumb man.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
say "Yeah, of course......wait...which one are you again? Oh.....no not really."
haha yeah, what he said, ahhaha wow, owned!!!!1111oneRatisson said:Why dont u tell us the story of how u were able to pick her up
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
knglerxt
Senior Don Juan
Ratisson said:Why dont u tell us the story of how u were able to pick her up
Yeah. I call BS on this one.
knglerxt said:Yeah. I call BS on this one.
lol. bull****?
I asked her to skip school so I could reach over to her house and the rest is history. I was there from 12 to 4 and boy did i have a good time, I had an amazing time and I'm surprised and curious to why should would have to ask. Did I look unsatisfied? maybe...I have a huge resivour of sexual stamina and I don't get tired easily. I don't know if thats something to brag about maybe you guys are the same maybe not. But I just found it weird that she had to ask and a dude like me really dosen't like answering female questions. If I wanna tell her I'd tell her but I didn't think she needed to be told I thought it was obvious.