"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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been meeting a girl for about 2 months now...sleeping together going out for drinks, been for a few meals...ended up meeting her mum and grandma by accident aswell! But anyways!

She has text me today saying she is confused about me and her and asked if I am just classing it as fun?
i replied with "I dont know,what do you class it as."
She said "well i wouldnt exactly say we are friends, but I dont know, Im confused."
So my reply was "i dont like to rush anything at all, I like to have fun and a good time and see what happens, do you get me?" she said she did get me!
Wanting opinions, did I handle this the right way? I think I did because atm I am unsure if i want to be in a relationship, but she does seem nice and I enjoy being with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It seems to me that she is hinting that she wants
you to ask her to be in a relationship, If you want to be in one with her go for it but it sounds like you don't so you told her the truth. You did right by telling her the truth but you might ruin your chance to have a relationship with her in the future if you wait too long on the whole thing, it's really up to you where to go from here.
 
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it sounds like you are the ball handler of this relationship, and i just want to add that whatever you say really should reflect what you want, which you have done. I understand the ambiguousness and all though
 
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So the good: she is hooked on you. You can keep her as a side piece as you fvck other chicks.

The semi-bad: she has an expiration date. If you keep this going, she may give you an ultimatum. Notice I said semi-bad. This is because you can ignore her and then randomly fvck her when you want to "get back together".
 
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Tell her that you aren't looking for anything serious right now and would like to get together some more to get to know her better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uncharted said:
So the good: she is hooked on you. You can keep her as a side piece as you fvck other chicks.

The semi-bad: she has an expiration date. If you keep this going, she may give you an ultimatum. Notice I said semi-bad. This is because you can ignore her and then randomly fvck her when you want to "get back together".
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I second this ^
 
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