"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GIRL ASKES YOU:do you still have feeling for me?

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«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
u dont hav feelns 4 me nemore do u?
SGIV says:
who told u that?
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
and seriously tell da truth
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
im askn u
SGIV says:
i noticed
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
lol
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
no 1 said nethn i want 2 no da truth
SGIV says:
sounds like you need to be on dr. phil
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
lol
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
jst answer with da truth and i'll drop da subjct
SGIV says:
yea i do

Something about this just didnt seem right to me! what do you guys think...should i of said yea, or not?

ps. we dated in the past(she wants to date me now)...thought that might be alil important...lol.........ight then PIMPS (Laurence and James if your reading this, i hope ur having a good time at camp....pull some biddys...lol)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dang dude, I don't think you should have told her straight up. I usually try to avoid the subject when girls ask me that (even if I really am interested). It can be hard sometimes though.
 
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OK, i'll take it that it was an IM convo, and not in real life.

What should you have said? Something along the lines of:

"If you really wanna know, let's hang out and i will show you if im still interested..."

That way your not answering directly, your not saying yes or no, your hinting at something more, and your being a man about things.

If she's intersted, she will hang out with you, and if she does, don't tell her anything along the lines of you liking her. Just make the move, lean in and kiss her.

You win.

Note: If you where in person, you should've just skipped the lets hang out ect. and just went straight to kissing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I would've said something like

"Hmmm, you and me are gonna go to the movies this friday, and then I'll decide if I still do"
 
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well you had to say yes in some form

if you say "no" that is like telling her you dont want a relationship, and i assume you do


i would have said something like, "i need to get to know you more but yeah i like you so far"
 
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I would have said "Whoooooa!!! You barely said hi and now you want to know if I like you or not? Don't you think we're moving too quick? I mean I barely know you."

P.S. Maria sucked my 12 inch ****, *****!
 
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Was speaking and typing in decent english no longer a requirement? That aim convo hurt my eyes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what you did was right .... if you kept the so-called "dj rules" and similar crap it could be counterproductive. whoever thinks that this girl could loose attraction for him just because he told "yes i do" is stupid :rolleyes:
 
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Or maybe you're just stupid.
 
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dark hair alpha....thanks for the post PIMP....and ppl, is what hes saying not true??...think about it
 
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Originally posted by E_ze05

no 1 said nethn i want 2 no da truth
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i'm sorry, but that has to be the worst thing i have ever read in my life.

wtf is with this "da" and "no" ****.
 
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Originally posted by Dark Haired Alpha
what you did was right .... if you kept the so-called "dj rules" and similar crap it could be counterproductive. whoever thinks that this girl could loose attraction for him just because he told "yes i do" is stupid :rolleyes:
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No. Your the ones who stupid, he tells her he likes her, and he instantly shifts all the power over to her!

Iono what kinda relations you're into, but nowadays, real women dont show mercy. Either they feel attraction for you, or they don't.

There's no "i feel pity for you and ill give you a chance"!

Thats bullsh*t

Just do what ealier ppl said, answer indirectly, and make her earn those feelings in you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
No. Your the ones who stupid, he tells her he likes her, and he instantly shifts all the power over to her!

Iono what kinda relations you're into, but nowadays, real women dont show mercy. Either they feel attraction for you, or they don't.

There's no "i feel pity for you and ill give you a chance"!

Thats bullsh*t

Just do what ealier ppl said, answer indirectly, and make her earn those feelings in you!
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sure so now she doesn't like him anymore and/or she has all the power now :rolleyes:

think before you start repeating bible rules to us again
 
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