"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GIRL ASKES YOU:do you still have feeling for me?

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«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
u dont hav feelns 4 me nemore do u?
SGIV says:
who told u that?
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
and seriously tell da truth
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
im askn u
SGIV says:
i noticed
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
lol
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
no 1 said nethn i want 2 no da truth
SGIV says:
sounds like you need to be on dr. phil
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
lol
«¡Mariale!»(f)--=>(k) says:
jst answer with da truth and i'll drop da subjct
SGIV says:
yea i do

Something about this just didnt seem right to me! what do you guys think...should i of said yea, or not?

ps. we dated in the past(she wants to date me now)...thought that might be alil important...lol.........ight then PIMPS (Laurence and James if your reading this, i hope ur having a good time at camp....pull some biddys...lol)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jerky Boi

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Dang dude, I don't think you should have told her straight up. I usually try to avoid the subject when girls ask me that (even if I really am interested). It can be hard sometimes though.
 

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OK, i'll take it that it was an IM convo, and not in real life.

What should you have said? Something along the lines of:

"If you really wanna know, let's hang out and i will show you if im still interested..."

That way your not answering directly, your not saying yes or no, your hinting at something more, and your being a man about things.

If she's intersted, she will hang out with you, and if she does, don't tell her anything along the lines of you liking her. Just make the move, lean in and kiss her.

You win.

Note: If you where in person, you should've just skipped the lets hang out ect. and just went straight to kissing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheNewGuy

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I would've said something like

"Hmmm, you and me are gonna go to the movies this friday, and then I'll decide if I still do"
 

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well you had to say yes in some form

if you say "no" that is like telling her you dont want a relationship, and i assume you do


i would have said something like, "i need to get to know you more but yeah i like you so far"
 

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I would have said "Whoooooa!!! You barely said hi and now you want to know if I like you or not? Don't you think we're moving too quick? I mean I barely know you."

P.S. Maria sucked my 12 inch ****, *****!
 

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Was speaking and typing in decent english no longer a requirement? That aim convo hurt my eyes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what you did was right .... if you kept the so-called "dj rules" and similar crap it could be counterproductive. whoever thinks that this girl could loose attraction for him just because he told "yes i do" is stupid :rolleyes:
 

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Or maybe you're just stupid.
 

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dark hair alpha....thanks for the post PIMP....and ppl, is what hes saying not true??...think about it
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05

no 1 said nethn i want 2 no da truth

i'm sorry, but that has to be the worst thing i have ever read in my life.

wtf is with this "da" and "no" ****.
 

[]D [] []V[] []D

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Originally posted by Dark Haired Alpha
what you did was right .... if you kept the so-called "dj rules" and similar crap it could be counterproductive. whoever thinks that this girl could loose attraction for him just because he told "yes i do" is stupid :rolleyes:
No. Your the ones who stupid, he tells her he likes her, and he instantly shifts all the power over to her!

Iono what kinda relations you're into, but nowadays, real women dont show mercy. Either they feel attraction for you, or they don't.

There's no "i feel pity for you and ill give you a chance"!

Thats bullsh*t

Just do what ealier ppl said, answer indirectly, and make her earn those feelings in you!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
No. Your the ones who stupid, he tells her he likes her, and he instantly shifts all the power over to her!

Iono what kinda relations you're into, but nowadays, real women dont show mercy. Either they feel attraction for you, or they don't.

There's no "i feel pity for you and ill give you a chance"!

Thats bullsh*t

Just do what ealier ppl said, answer indirectly, and make her earn those feelings in you!
sure so now she doesn't like him anymore and/or she has all the power now :rolleyes:

think before you start repeating bible rules to us again
 
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