"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl asked me to write a paper and offered money

oscarxp25

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Dear guys,

I work with this girl named Anne. Anne knows I am very creative, she told me on several due to the fact I am always writing and making movies. She was actually in one of them. Anyway, she comes up to me yesterday and asks me to write her two page paper on a movie I love "The Deer Hunter" This will no be a challenge for me, I can seriously finish the paper in an hour. The reason she wants me to write it is because she has loads of work to do and this is a paper that she cares about the least. She offered me thirty dollars to do this paper.

Anne is the only girl that my AFC side still exists in. In Jan 2006 when I started working there, I was still an AFC, but slowly grew out of it. I have these other two girls but Anne stil brings out by one-its side. She is really hot and funny but I came to a conclusion last night that she is not interested in me because she throws out no IOI's.

My question lays in...should I accept the money? Should I only ask for 20? Give me your opinions guys
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KillaCam

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I'm going to try to keep this as nice and restrained as possible.

Grow some backbone!

What, you think doing her work for her is going to get you points? Hell no it isn't. If anything, she is going to lose respect for you when she realises you're so easily whipped into "Do her homework for her" mode. Fvck the money dude, dignity is more important than a few bucks.

You are a tool to her. Throw a few bucks at you, watch you do the work, and she gets the grades without effort. Either tell the women to do her own damn work, or find some other chump willing to be her slave. Don't let this girl use you, show her who has the control.

It's reasons like this we have under-equipped people in today's workforce.
 

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you are righ

It was a moment of weakness. I am going to give the paper to my friend who needs the money.

Thanks for the support.
 

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What dignity issues are here? She's not wearing a low cut shirt and batting her eyelashes at him trying to get him to do something for her for free by dangling the possibility that he might get lucky in front of him. She offered him cash. It's a business transaction. I'd ask for $40.

A 2 page paper takes like 20-30 minutes to write. I used to write them about 2 hours before the class it was due.
 

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Speaking from personal experience, I've did this once for my "freaky friend." One favor turned into me doing most of her written assignments for the semester. Tell her no.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrRuckus said:
What dignity issues are here? She's not wearing a low cut shirt and batting her eyelashes at him trying to get him to do something for her for free by dangling the possibility that he might get lucky in front of him. She offered him cash. It's a business transaction. I'd ask for $40.

A 2 page paper takes like 20-30 minutes to write. I used to write them about 2 hours before the class it was due.


exactly. take it for what its worth.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I'd tell her it will cost her a BJ. 10 mins of her time is worth an A.
If you don't care about her, that's ^^^ the way to go. Otherwise, charge her a flat rate of $50 per paper, or $20 per page, whichever works better for you, depending on the length of the paper.

-E.Nigma
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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think of it this way. if its going to take you 1 hr to write it then you'll be getting paid 30 dollars for the hour. that's a high paying job.

The guys who wrote the other responses about how she is trying to take advantage of you i think are wrong. She is offering you money in return, its not like she's asking u to do this and giving u nothing for it. just make sure that u get the cash before u start writing the paper.
 

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Ratisson said:
think of it this way. if its going to take you 1 hr to write it then you'll be getting paid 30 dollars for the hour. that's a high paying job.

The guys who wrote the other responses about how she is trying to take advantage of you i think are wrong. She is offering you money in return, its not like she's asking u to do this and giving u nothing for it. just make sure that u get the cash before u start writing the paper.

good point

u dont want her to give u the big stiffee :nono:
 

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I'd do it for the money...but I would raise the price by asking for a fuk too!
 

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Eh. Like I said, this is part of the reason why the workplace is littered with people who don't know what they are doing. I'd hate to think that's the American way. I'll bite my lip from here on in, don't want anyone to think i'm degrading the United States' fantastic collegiate system do I? ;)

To the poster, just ask yourself what the motivation is, the money, or the attention from her. You have your answer then :up:

Good luck.
 
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do it for just the money, and dont want anything else, and she'll wonder why u didnt want anything else


then she'll be interested
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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make money man- ha Id do it who cares about if she likes you or whatever- take her money and use it to go on a date with some other girl or fill up a tank of gas
 

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KillaCam said:
Eh. Like I said, this is part of the reason why the workplace is littered with people who don't know what they are doing. I'd hate to think that's the American way. I'll bite my lip from here on in, don't want anyone to think i'm degrading the United States' fantastic collegiate system do I?

To the poster, just ask yourself what the motivation is, the money, or the attention from her. You have your answer then :up:

Good luck.
The education system is a joke. You can do everythign they want you to do and still come out not knowing crap because they don't teach effectively or the right things to begin with.

I learned far more in the summers between semesters than i did while actually in session. Because in the summer i actually had time to learn rather than doing BULLSH1T work.
 

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bro, make her buy u some beer
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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