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Girl asked me to write a paper and offered money

oscarxp25

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Dear guys,

I work with this girl named Anne. Anne knows I am very creative, she told me on several due to the fact I am always writing and making movies. She was actually in one of them. Anyway, she comes up to me yesterday and asks me to write her two page paper on a movie I love "The Deer Hunter" This will no be a challenge for me, I can seriously finish the paper in an hour. The reason she wants me to write it is because she has loads of work to do and this is a paper that she cares about the least. She offered me thirty dollars to do this paper.

Anne is the only girl that my AFC side still exists in. In Jan 2006 when I started working there, I was still an AFC, but slowly grew out of it. I have these other two girls but Anne stil brings out by one-its side. She is really hot and funny but I came to a conclusion last night that she is not interested in me because she throws out no IOI's.

My question lays in...should I accept the money? Should I only ask for 20? Give me your opinions guys
 

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I'm going to try to keep this as nice and restrained as possible.

Grow some backbone!

What, you think doing her work for her is going to get you points? Hell no it isn't. If anything, she is going to lose respect for you when she realises you're so easily whipped into "Do her homework for her" mode. Fvck the money dude, dignity is more important than a few bucks.

You are a tool to her. Throw a few bucks at you, watch you do the work, and she gets the grades without effort. Either tell the women to do her own damn work, or find some other chump willing to be her slave. Don't let this girl use you, show her who has the control.

It's reasons like this we have under-equipped people in today's workforce.
 

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you are righ

It was a moment of weakness. I am going to give the paper to my friend who needs the money.

Thanks for the support.
 

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What dignity issues are here? She's not wearing a low cut shirt and batting her eyelashes at him trying to get him to do something for her for free by dangling the possibility that he might get lucky in front of him. She offered him cash. It's a business transaction. I'd ask for $40.

A 2 page paper takes like 20-30 minutes to write. I used to write them about 2 hours before the class it was due.
 

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Speaking from personal experience, I've did this once for my "freaky friend." One favor turned into me doing most of her written assignments for the semester. Tell her no.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrRuckus said:
What dignity issues are here? She's not wearing a low cut shirt and batting her eyelashes at him trying to get him to do something for her for free by dangling the possibility that he might get lucky in front of him. She offered him cash. It's a business transaction. I'd ask for $40.

A 2 page paper takes like 20-30 minutes to write. I used to write them about 2 hours before the class it was due.


exactly. take it for what its worth.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I'd tell her it will cost her a BJ. 10 mins of her time is worth an A.
If you don't care about her, that's ^^^ the way to go. Otherwise, charge her a flat rate of $50 per paper, or $20 per page, whichever works better for you, depending on the length of the paper.

-E.Nigma
 

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think of it this way. if its going to take you 1 hr to write it then you'll be getting paid 30 dollars for the hour. that's a high paying job.

The guys who wrote the other responses about how she is trying to take advantage of you i think are wrong. She is offering you money in return, its not like she's asking u to do this and giving u nothing for it. just make sure that u get the cash before u start writing the paper.
 

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Ratisson said:
think of it this way. if its going to take you 1 hr to write it then you'll be getting paid 30 dollars for the hour. that's a high paying job.

The guys who wrote the other responses about how she is trying to take advantage of you i think are wrong. She is offering you money in return, its not like she's asking u to do this and giving u nothing for it. just make sure that u get the cash before u start writing the paper.

good point

u dont want her to give u the big stiffee :nono:
 

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I'd do it for the money...but I would raise the price by asking for a fuk too!
 

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Eh. Like I said, this is part of the reason why the workplace is littered with people who don't know what they are doing. I'd hate to think that's the American way. I'll bite my lip from here on in, don't want anyone to think i'm degrading the United States' fantastic collegiate system do I? ;)

To the poster, just ask yourself what the motivation is, the money, or the attention from her. You have your answer then :up:

Good luck.
 
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do it for just the money, and dont want anything else, and she'll wonder why u didnt want anything else


then she'll be interested
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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make money man- ha Id do it who cares about if she likes you or whatever- take her money and use it to go on a date with some other girl or fill up a tank of gas
 

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KillaCam said:
Eh. Like I said, this is part of the reason why the workplace is littered with people who don't know what they are doing. I'd hate to think that's the American way. I'll bite my lip from here on in, don't want anyone to think i'm degrading the United States' fantastic collegiate system do I?

To the poster, just ask yourself what the motivation is, the money, or the attention from her. You have your answer then :up:

Good luck.
The education system is a joke. You can do everythign they want you to do and still come out not knowing crap because they don't teach effectively or the right things to begin with.

I learned far more in the summers between semesters than i did while actually in session. Because in the summer i actually had time to learn rather than doing BULLSH1T work.
 

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bro, make her buy u some beer
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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