So I started hanging out with this girl about 2 weeks ago, both 11 grade .We knew eachother for acouple years through friends but we never really talked much . So anyways we met in person again , gave me hers/n and start talking online , and eventually hang out a couple days later . She does a lot of kino , we watch movies , good eye contact , and she never has any objections to hanging out . Infact when i even hint at hanging out shes all for it . This weekend she ASKED ME to prom while chilling on my roof and i said yea. But even with all these signals , good conversations , and this chemistry i feel with her . We still havent hooked up, and it feels whenever the situation can arise she starts to back off. So im veryyyy confused with these mixed signals , and need some ideas suggestions because this is a strange one.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girl asked me to Prom,but Still Getting Mixed Signals
- Thread starter RaDIOASIS
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Real Ice Man
Don Juan
Yeah, it's rare for a girl to ask you to the prom...REALLY rare. That's a sign of high interest so you have very little to worry about.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yea im aware the signs point to yes . But like lets say were laughin , teasing her , i put my arm around her or put on some kind of move and she kind of looses focus and ends up kind of inching her away or looking nervous...I mean somethings not right here, ive read the bible ....I mean what do you guys usually do in a situation , just chilling with a chick but need to bring it to that next level? Idk if shes just playing cold or somthing or playing cautious because prom is still 3 weeks away and you know something bad that could arise from fooling around that would end up with me and her in a fight before prom. Im pretty relaxed with her to , good convos , and Id even consider her g/f material . Right now I think im gonna cut her off from me for a couple days, see how her intrest level is.
So any advice , past experiences, be a great help...
So any advice , past experiences, be a great help...
shydude
Master Don Juan
Comen man!! Women are different, people are all diffeent from each other. And we cant expect from em what we want. So grab em Balls and show em chiks whos the daddy!