This past weekend my school was on break and the club i'm involved with went on a trip out of state. Because of the trip, we all spent Valentine's Day out of state together in a hotel. During the trip I got to know this one girl. She's a senior, I'm a junior. I was never really fond of her earlier this year because of our differing views. We disagreed frequently in class, but I'm the type of guy who is gonna try to get to know whoever I'm with.
During the trip I spent a lot of time with her. The first day we arrived we were in a group together. We talked a lot and became friends. Later that day at dinner she said something that really offended me so I just didn't talk to her the rest of that day. She didn't come into my hotel room like all my other friends. What she said to me actually offended my friends. The next day when we were around the city, I avoided her. It sort of pissed me off in how she victimized herself. She came up to me and asked me if and why i'm mad at her and not talking to her. She didn't even recognize what she said. I just thought whatever, and talked to her and what not. Later that day, she asked me if I'd be her "valentine." Although I knew this was a lot of BS. I kino'd her a lot. We had fun. When she asked me to be her valentine, I said, "You don't mean that." And she said, "I know." and I said, "Materialistic girls are the best!" and she called me a jerk. This was all in a playful manner tho. Ironically, at dinner the next night, all the seats were taken and me and her had a two person table with just us.
Later that night the entire group chilled in me and my friends hotel room. We played truth or dare and all that stupid ****. I didn't really pay attention. I was relaxing, listening to my ipod. The entire time my friends were trying to imply that she liked me or I like her. Actually, they did that the entire trip. They kept daring me or her to kiss eachother or other stupid ****. She asked my best friend if i liked her and he didn't know. To be honest, i think she was embarassed by everyone implying it. I could care less on my behalf tho. She was dared to kiss me and protested way too much and i thought to myself, "Doth does protest too much" hahahahahaha. I wasn't really into it, but she did kiss one of my friends with no issue.
The final day I didn't get a chance to talk to her at all. She went off and did her own thing. I hung out with my friends. I saw her at a museum and asked her if she wanted to chill with us and she was really standoffish so I thought whatever and went on with my life. When we gathered at the airport I started talking to her and she said something along the lines of, "I can't believe you didn't talk to me at all today." and i said, "I only saw you once, and I asked if you wanted to chill with us." and she said, "Well I didn't want to be with all your friends." and i said, "You were alone pretty much. Company is better than nothing." and she said, "You didn't have to hang out with them. You could of spent the day with me." And i said, "It goes both ways." Then she said, "You know, I asked you to be my valentine, and it's valentine's day, and you didn't get me anything." and I said, "I thought my company was enough." and she said, "Nope. I'm mad at you, you know." and i said, "I'll live, you know." I slept and listened to my ipod on the plane. When the plane was landing I looked out her window because her row was infront of mine, and I didn't have a window. And she closed it because she had 2 windows. I used this to kino by holding her hand. We talked, and she said she was gonna tell everyone I'm gay because i didn't want to be her valentine. She said she was gonna tell our teacher about how I was mean to her by not buying her anything and all this other petty stuff. Whatever, right?
I would definitely date her, but I'm not invested or anything. Interest is there, and I haven't completely friend zoned myself. But she made a big deal about people wanting us to kiss and then goes on to go out of her way to flirt with me. I don't really know where I stand or how i should proceed.
During the trip I spent a lot of time with her. The first day we arrived we were in a group together. We talked a lot and became friends. Later that day at dinner she said something that really offended me so I just didn't talk to her the rest of that day. She didn't come into my hotel room like all my other friends. What she said to me actually offended my friends. The next day when we were around the city, I avoided her. It sort of pissed me off in how she victimized herself. She came up to me and asked me if and why i'm mad at her and not talking to her. She didn't even recognize what she said. I just thought whatever, and talked to her and what not. Later that day, she asked me if I'd be her "valentine." Although I knew this was a lot of BS. I kino'd her a lot. We had fun. When she asked me to be her valentine, I said, "You don't mean that." And she said, "I know." and I said, "Materialistic girls are the best!" and she called me a jerk. This was all in a playful manner tho. Ironically, at dinner the next night, all the seats were taken and me and her had a two person table with just us.
Later that night the entire group chilled in me and my friends hotel room. We played truth or dare and all that stupid ****. I didn't really pay attention. I was relaxing, listening to my ipod. The entire time my friends were trying to imply that she liked me or I like her. Actually, they did that the entire trip. They kept daring me or her to kiss eachother or other stupid ****. She asked my best friend if i liked her and he didn't know. To be honest, i think she was embarassed by everyone implying it. I could care less on my behalf tho. She was dared to kiss me and protested way too much and i thought to myself, "Doth does protest too much" hahahahahaha. I wasn't really into it, but she did kiss one of my friends with no issue.
The final day I didn't get a chance to talk to her at all. She went off and did her own thing. I hung out with my friends. I saw her at a museum and asked her if she wanted to chill with us and she was really standoffish so I thought whatever and went on with my life. When we gathered at the airport I started talking to her and she said something along the lines of, "I can't believe you didn't talk to me at all today." and i said, "I only saw you once, and I asked if you wanted to chill with us." and she said, "Well I didn't want to be with all your friends." and i said, "You were alone pretty much. Company is better than nothing." and she said, "You didn't have to hang out with them. You could of spent the day with me." And i said, "It goes both ways." Then she said, "You know, I asked you to be my valentine, and it's valentine's day, and you didn't get me anything." and I said, "I thought my company was enough." and she said, "Nope. I'm mad at you, you know." and i said, "I'll live, you know." I slept and listened to my ipod on the plane. When the plane was landing I looked out her window because her row was infront of mine, and I didn't have a window. And she closed it because she had 2 windows. I used this to kino by holding her hand. We talked, and she said she was gonna tell everyone I'm gay because i didn't want to be her valentine. She said she was gonna tell our teacher about how I was mean to her by not buying her anything and all this other petty stuff. Whatever, right?
I would definitely date her, but I'm not invested or anything. Interest is there, and I haven't completely friend zoned myself. But she made a big deal about people wanting us to kiss and then goes on to go out of her way to flirt with me. I don't really know where I stand or how i should proceed.
