"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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girl approaches me, asks for my # but doesnt write it down..

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i was at the lobby talking to some new friends about business and stuff when this girl keeps eyeing me; i was eyeing her all the while im talking with my friends.

she must have thought we were talking about her.

minutes later im in the hall, i see her at the end, she motions her hand at me.. then she asks my name.. then later asks my #.

she doesnt even write my # down.. she was just like memorizing it.

i was like, "how you gonna remember that?" ur not even writing it down..

then she goes, "i'll call u.."

then i ask for her name and # too.

wierd, how can she possibly remember my #? lol
 

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Originally posted by LuisGarcia10
She must have one of those photographic memories. ;)
when she was memorizing it, she was like motioning dialing on an imaginary phone... lol..
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Photographic memory?
do some people actually have that? that kind of mental thingy can get handly in examinations lol :D
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^^^ Yeah, some do.


Originally posted by -.-
when she was memorizing it, she was like motioning dialing on an imaginary phone... lol..

Bwahahahahahahahahahaha
 

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Originally posted by -.-
when she was memorizing it, she was like motioning dialing on an imaginary phone... lol..
This isn't necessarily some kind of mick-take! I'm pretty good at memorising numbers as well, and I remember them by visualising the 'shape' the number makes when dialled into a phone keypad. Often it has a distinctive movement that lets you remember the number far more easily.

The only complication is that some number pads have 123 on the top row, some have it on the bottom. I think 123 on the top is common on phones, 123 on the bottom is the standard on computer keyboards.

This girl may have been trying to impress you by showing off how smart she was! If she calls you then you know for sure...
 
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