"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girl approaches me, asks for my # but doesnt write it down..

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i was at the lobby talking to some new friends about business and stuff when this girl keeps eyeing me; i was eyeing her all the while im talking with my friends.

she must have thought we were talking about her.

minutes later im in the hall, i see her at the end, she motions her hand at me.. then she asks my name.. then later asks my #.

she doesnt even write my # down.. she was just like memorizing it.

i was like, "how you gonna remember that?" ur not even writing it down..

then she goes, "i'll call u.."

then i ask for her name and # too.

wierd, how can she possibly remember my #? lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by LuisGarcia10
She must have one of those photographic memories. ;)
when she was memorizing it, she was like motioning dialing on an imaginary phone... lol..
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Photographic memory?
do some people actually have that? that kind of mental thingy can get handly in examinations lol :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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^^^ Yeah, some do.


Originally posted by -.-
when she was memorizing it, she was like motioning dialing on an imaginary phone... lol..

Bwahahahahahahahahahaha
 

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Originally posted by -.-
when she was memorizing it, she was like motioning dialing on an imaginary phone... lol..
This isn't necessarily some kind of mick-take! I'm pretty good at memorising numbers as well, and I remember them by visualising the 'shape' the number makes when dialled into a phone keypad. Often it has a distinctive movement that lets you remember the number far more easily.

The only complication is that some number pads have 123 on the top row, some have it on the bottom. I think 123 on the top is common on phones, 123 on the bottom is the standard on computer keyboards.

This girl may have been trying to impress you by showing off how smart she was! If she calls you then you know for sure...
 
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