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Girl approached me again after no contact, should I just play it cool?

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Met a girl that works and exercises at my local gym, so I see her a few times a week. She was really into me at first, I wasn't that much. Eventually I started talking to her more and she came up to me and wanted to train boxing with me. She knows I train at a boxing gym too and sometimes I like hitting the bags at the regular gym. So everything is fine, we're both flirty and she wants to train with me again the next day so we did. She got my number then things were kind of hot and cold with us for a while, but she did ask to go to my wrestling tournament in a month. Things kind of died down, I text her the weekend before we were supposed to go and she ignored it. She approached me the week of, but I didn't really want to carry on a conversation because I was kind of tired of her games and I had other things to worry about. I kind of suspected she lost interest or was with another guy, and I also made some mistakes that I know now not to make again.

Anyways about 4 weeks go by where I just go to the gym and do my workout without talking to her. She approaches me the day before Thanksgiving asking how I am and a few other things. She asks if I'm going to come in tomorrow I told her it's the holiday but she still has to work there part of the day. So, she just wishes me a happy thanksgiving and that's it.

I'll probably see her next week at the gym. I do still like this girl and I read a lot about the mistakes I made. Just want some advice on my situation.
 

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mikey2012

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Play it cool? But you're not. Ask her out an try to fvck her. If she refuses then you can stop wasting time posting nonsense here and move on.
 

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Just play it cool and if you really like her, pursue her. if she drifts away, then don't even bother. may she's just "friendzoning" you. maybe she just wants companion.
 

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I finally asked a friend that knows her well. Turns out she has had a boyfriend for sometime. Kind of explains all the hot/cold behavior, but she was the one that came on to me so I didn't think she had one. Yesterday she was walking by and stopped in front of me playing on her phone, I was doing something so we just waved. Today I just went about my workout as usual, she used a machine right next me facing me from the side but I didn't notice.

I don't know if she's one of those monkey branch girls that hops to a new guy when she knows she has him locked in. I never was really forward with her or showed my true feelings. I'd just flirt and banter back, never really texted much. Idk if I should make an effort with her anyway, maybe invite her to box again or just forget about her.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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old_skoolr

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How do you feel about sleeping with a girl with a bf? If your morally against it then let it go and go back to ignoring with a friendly hi here and there.

If your not, ask her out and she what she says, she doesnt know you know she has a bf and shes never mentioned it. If she rejects you and says she a bf, then move on.
 

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hmmm I think I will ask her out just to make my intentions clear, if she pulls the bf card out I'll just say something along the lines of "if things don't work out give me a call" and date other girls.

She's always receptive to me in person so I'll try to bump into her tomorrow if I see her or early next week.
 
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