"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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this girl ive been spendin time with is havin her college graduation party tomorrow. we just spoke on the phone and i brought it up, she said "um i didnt invite you" followed by a "just kidding", but when i thought about it now i wasnt personally invited, in fact the other day she kept askin her other friends in front of me if they were goin and i must have assumed i was invited too.

should i go? bring it up? im confused now. i think her ex is supposed to be goin so she didnt feel itd be appropiate for me to and avoided asking, any thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like pretty reactive here. I'd just go out to the bar and meet new people instead of the party.
 
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So I shouldn't just go and be the fun indifferent guy?
 
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dont be the needy guy, do your own thing...find somehitng else to do. If you go to the party youl probly screw up future potential with this braod
 
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