"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girl and party

cNfny

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this girl ive been spendin time with is havin her college graduation party tomorrow. we just spoke on the phone and i brought it up, she said "um i didnt invite you" followed by a "just kidding", but when i thought about it now i wasnt personally invited, in fact the other day she kept askin her other friends in front of me if they were goin and i must have assumed i was invited too.

should i go? bring it up? im confused now. i think her ex is supposed to be goin so she didnt feel itd be appropiate for me to and avoided asking, any thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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EFFORT

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Sounds like pretty reactive here. I'd just go out to the bar and meet new people instead of the party.
 

cNfny

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So I shouldn't just go and be the fun indifferent guy?
 

pallo316

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dont be the needy guy, do your own thing...find somehitng else to do. If you go to the party youl probly screw up future potential with this braod
 
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