"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lordson

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abcd_z said:
Women process things through their emotions, which means what she'll take away from that is "he made me feel bad". Not what you wanted. I don't know what your plan was, but you must never ever discuss the relationship or any problems you have in it logically.

This brings me to my second point: Women's attitudes and emotions can change on a whim. So no matter how much you're she loves you now, remember that this means jack when it comes to the future. Understand this, and accept her for who she is, a flighty woman who processes things emotionally and has little concern for masculine concepts such as "honor" or "integrity".
that is so true. the littlelist things can set them off, and they let their emotions dictate thier actions.

its just like that movie "Closer" in the end Natalie Portman just suddenly goes "I don't love you anymore, goodbye."
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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1. On one side of this coin you tell her about your dates or you even lie to her about it. What right have you to be jealous. Your the DJ so you should be cool except:

2. That ******* friend is disrespecting you as a man. And she loves it. They probably talk about you behind your back.

3. You see her only 1 time a week at most? That isn't a relationship and she isn't your girlfriend. You guys are **** buddies.

4. If she was serious about you then she would WANT to spend more time with you. But now you are in the position of a challenge for her, hence the new dude who is even ****ting on you in the process.

5. Girls like this want to win you over before she dumps the heck out of you for putting her through the other girl thing you did. I personally think you should of kept ya big mouth shut about it. And don't bother with that I don't lie to women shyt cause you lie about other women.

6. You also are not handling your business like a man.

a) you let that punk practically shyt down your throat
b) you let your female walk all over your arse
c) some stupid dumb fool got you to act passive about shyt and you need to shoot his weak pansy arse for talking you into that weak man crap your doing.

7. And to think you still want to pretend it doesn't bother you yet you made a big ole post about it. Be real. It is bothering the fruck out of you. And you now think your girl is frucking the other guy which I wouldn't doubt it if she was. And they both are laughing at your total lack of ballz.

8. Oh well. Suck the shyt off their boots and learn to like it or do something.

9. Only she set this up to fruck with you. YOU can either blow out which is cool with her cause she has your replacement right there in front of you and everywhere you go they will be there and she WILL see to it. Or you can bow down and give her what you she wants which is exclusivity but I wouldn't doubt that she will run you like a fool before dumping you now that it has gone this far.

Lastly she likes his company more than you because he seems like a real man. When you said he was a arsehole that told me he was more masculine than you are. Most weak men say that about badboy types. But ask yourself this question. If he was such a arsehole why is she with him having so much freakin fun!!!!

Have a good nights sleep playboy.

Wake up in the morning and handle your business.
 

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Keep other plates in hand.

Let her think with her feelings. Show her you have other women in your life, who are just friends atm, but you can move on ANY time.

She might be tempted to have sex with this a-hole. But she will feel more attraction towards the guy who has higher value, is secure, and capable to get other women anytime.
 
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