Girl advice

[James.]

Hey all,

I'm new to this forum but have read posts here from people in the past.

Last night, a girl asked me to come in for a drink. We were both a bit drunk already so within ten minutes we were making out. I then started taking her clothes off but once I made it to the last layer, she said she doesn't do random sex when she's drunk.

To this I said fine, thinking she would change her mind, but then she fell asleep so I dressed and left.

She's a recent friend of mine, we don't know each other well, she's well to do, and apparently pretty difficult to take home.

Any insight into her perspective? What would you do if this happened or what do you do to prevent this from happening?

tks

 

[parkthebus]

Last minute resistance. Should have just kissed her and continued.

 

[marmel75]

Typical LMR...might get another chance or you might have blown it by not at least pushing the envelope a little further and see if she would have caved.

You did fine by saying OK, but you needed to follow it up with attempting it again after making out some more and putting her hand on your c0ck. That seems to really melt LMR...when their hand is on a warm, hard, throbbing c0ck a lot of them just cave...

Bottom line is, never give up the first time a chick says no...you likely would have gotten laid if you stayed patient and just pushed a little further

 

[James.]

Thanks, that probably would have worked.

 

[James.]

I'm definitely guilty of not pushing through resistance.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Rex usually agrees with Marmel because dude's advice is on point, but he dropped the ball on this, and Rex will show you why.

We were both a bit drunk already so within ten minutes we were making out. I then started taking her clothes off but once I made it to the last layer, she said she doesn't do random sex when she's drunk.

Considering that you were both admittedly drunk and she verbalized that she doesn't have sex when she's drunk. You which was...

but then she fell asleep so I dressed and left.

There isn't a jurisdiction in the country in which an intoxicated person can contest to sex. If you would have f*cked this girl, you would have been playing games with your freedom.

She's a recent friend of mine, we don't know each other well,

Imagine if you did hit and she told her friends about it. She suddenly get a case of "wh*re's regret, tell her friends about it, they get in her ear about you raping her, (which technically you did because drunk people can't consent to sex,) then the next thing you know you're life is turned upside down because you're being arrested on a rape charge. Being that you're not a cop, (only cops can be beat rape charges,) you'll have to take the deal, wind up with a lesser felony, or some f*cked misdemeanor sexual assault conviction, and have to spend the rest of your life registered sex offender.

Was it LMR? Probably, but given she said "no," you did the right thing, by not pushing forward, dressing and leaving.

Any insight into her perspective? What would you do if this happened or what do you do to prevent this from happening?

Yeah, not drink so much that the chick gets too drunk to legally consent to sex.

 

[James.]

The double edge sword. Thanks for your advice, I find it hard to tell whether I should carry on or not; most often choosing not. On the flip side I know a lot of girls that advocate pushing on but that's neither here nor there.

 

[marmel75]

Rex usually agrees with Marmel because dude's advice is on point, but he dropped the ball on this, and Rex will show you why.



Considering that you were both admittedly drunk and she verbalized that she doesn't have sex when she's drunk. You which was...



There isn't a jurisdiction in the country in which an intoxicated person can contest to sex. If you would have f*cked this girl, you would have been playing games with your freedom.



Imagine if you did hit and she told her friends about it. She suddenly get a case of "wh*re's regret, tell her friends about it, they get in her ear about you raping her, (which technically you did because drunk people can't consent to sex,) then the next thing you know you're life is turned upside down because you're being arrested on a rape charge. Being that you're not a cop, (only cops can be beat rape charges,) you'll have to take the deal, wind up with a lesser felony, or some f*cked misdemeanor sexual assault conviction, and have to spend the rest of your life registered sex offender.

Was it LMR? Probably, but given she said "no," you did the right thing, by not pushing forward, dressing and leaving.



Yeah, not drink so much that the chick gets too drunk to legally consent to sex.

I considered this angle after I had already posted as well...these days you really can never be too careful...these ho's always looking for the come up.