Girl acting weird after sex?

[Summit]

Hey guys.
I met this girl through a friend and spoke to her for a while on MSN. Long story short I went out with her twice, had sex with her on the 2nd date, everything was fine we kissed at the end and I thought she might be a keeper. Well I messaged her a couple of days after asking how she was, got no reply, messaged her about 4 days after that to see what she was doing that night (was going to see if she wanted to do anything), no reply. Another thing is is that she hasnt come on MSN since we had sex which is pretty strange because she was pretty much on there whenever I signed into MSN. Its like shes disapeared off the face of the planet.

Now, im actually laughing at the situation because it seems like there are two possible scenarios. Number 1- Shes playing some stupid sort of game which is absolutely hilarious. Number 2- Shes changed her mind and not interested, which is fine except some sort of a message subtley hinting it would have been nice. And another thing I know shes not dead (rofl) coz shes been using her facebook.

Im just gonna leave it, however its made me a little angry and curious about whats happened but ill just have to go tune someone else to help get my mind off her. I just had to have a little rant and also see what you guys think about the situation.

 

[MooseGod]

She probably gave you herpes or something...either that or she just used you for sex....I hate it when chicks do that.

 

[Jitterbug]

Likely Buyer's Remorse has kicked in.

e.g she could be talking about you to her best friend and was told "WTF were you thinking?"

 

[DonJuan11]

Hey guys.
I met this girl through a friend and spoke to her for a while on MSN. Long story short I went out with her twice, had sex with her on the 2nd date, everything was fine we kissed at the end and I thought she might be a keeper. Well I messaged her a couple of days after asking how she was, got no reply, messaged her about 4 days after that to see what she was doing that night (was going to see if she wanted to do anything), no reply. Another thing is is that she hasnt come on MSN since we had sex which is pretty strange because she was pretty much on there whenever I signed into MSN. Its like shes disapeared off the face of the planet.

Im just gonna leave it, however its made me a little angry and curious about whats happened but ill just have to go tune someone else to help get my mind off her. I just had to have a little rant and also see what you guys think about the situation.

You viewed her as a keeper because she slept with you on a second date? I hate to see what you would do on a third date...a hand in marriage?

Sounds like she saw it as a ONS. She got her cherry popped and doesn't seem to need you anymore IMHO.

 

[Summit]

You viewed her as a keeper because she slept with you on a second date? I hate to see what you would do on a third date...a hand in marriage?

Sounds like she saw it as a ONS. She got her cherry popped and doesn't seem to need you anymore IMHO.

I never said I viewed her as a keeper because she slept with me lol. I viewed her as a potential keeper because she was nice, funny and she had other qualities that I viewed as attractive.

 

[lookyoung]

There could be a number of reasons of why she never called you back. Maybe she has a boyfriend. Maybe her x boyfriend came back in the picture. Maybe she didn't enjoy the sex. Maybe your d1ck was 2 big.

But one thing is for sure her interest level in you is not high. If it was she would not do this. Would she do this to brad pitt? Your best bet is too cut her loose even if she does call you back. Its not worth the hassle. Look at it this way at least you knocked it out of the ballpark.

 

[Summit]

Your best bet is too cut her loose even if she does call you back.

Now why would I go and do that. Theres still some fun to be had.

 

[3countriesPlan]

Your best bet is too cut her loose even if she does call you back.

Now why would I go and do that. Theres still some fun to be had.

I agree.. there is alot of extreme debuachery you can have with her. Of course don't ever make the mistake again of thinking shes the one.. She is the one you gonna tape fvcking at your pad, shes the one you gonna get to do a FFM threesome with you and maybe if you are evil enough.. shes one you can pimp out. haha

 

[frisco]

Another possibilities is that since you waited 4 days and never called she saw it as a ONS, Guys get this idea that they should wait to call after sex but you have already one there is no reason to wait. Call the next day and she how shes doing don't set any plans just see whats up

 

[Summit]

Another possibilities is that since you waited 4 days and never called she saw it as a ONS, Guys get this idea that they should wait to call after sex but you have already one there is no reason to wait. Call the next day and she how shes doing don't set any plans just see whats up

Yer but the thing is I honestly was busy and I really couldnt have been bothered ringing her until i wanted to do something again with her. I'd much rather her get to know me in person than by on the phone/MSN/SMS.

 

[Enryu]

well maybe she didnt enjoy sex with you
maybe she enjoyed it too much and thought it would be unchristian
maybe there was something you did wrong
btw. im sure she just blocked you on msn because if you block someone in msn you are invisible and offline to him/her

You cant force the girl to want to keep a relationship but if you want you can hide your cellphone number and call her to make sure she doesnt want you...

either way im sorry but i think she doesnt want anything from you.
I hope for you im wrong but it seems so dude

 

[Warrior74]

Yer but the thing is I honestly was busy and I really couldnt have been bothered ringing her until i wanted to do something again with her. I'd much rather her get to know me in person than by on the phone/MSN/SMS.

Baka! You always call the day after, just for a minute or two, say how you ejoyed her company and set up another meet. When you didn't call for 4 days it sent the signal that either you wanted a ONS or you wasn't that into her.

you weren't that busy to make a 3-5 min phone call.

 

[Summit]

im sure she just blocked you on msn because if you block someone in msn you are invisible and offline to him/her.

She has blocked me but im still on her list (you can check this through MSN options) haha. Im heeps confused, its like shes angry at me. Im tending to believe that she thinks I used her just for sex.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Number 2- Shes changed her mind and not interested, which is fine except some sort of a message subtley hinting it would have been nice. And another thing I know shes not dead (rofl) coz shes been using her facebook.

It's possible that is her message. It's so incredibly lame and cowardly, but some girls will tell you they are no longer interested by not calling or messaging you ever again.

What else would you expect from a b!tch?

 

[paraguayandj]

maybe you weren't good at bed buddy. Ever consider that as number 3?