"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl acting strangely at work?

newtothis92

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Now this isn't a typical work thing, I matched this girl on tinder a while a go, talked a bit , snap chatted, but we never met. I basically stopped talking to her then. I randomly got offered an interview at a place (applied to a tonne), and remembered she worked there, so I asked her about it and started talking to her abit,. I got the job.

Since I started working there she's been incredibly strange around me, she originally talked a lot to me online after I started (FB, snapchat, etc).. she smiles in person, acts shy, I think she's attracted to me, but she avoids me a lot. doesn't like to linger in my presence and doesn't talk to me like other colleagues. It's messing me up as I feel weird now even trying to approach her/ converse with her like with other work mates. Since she started acting this way, I basically shut down social media contact with her as if she won't talk to me in person, why bother online, ? So I just kinda gave one word answers, didn't allow convo to progress. She's kind of been putting feelers out there recently though, sending me snapchat and liking FB pics, and her friend keeps bringing her up when I'm in his presence.

Sorry for this childish ****, sounds like high school nonsense, but I'm perplexed. She's attractive, but I've been spinning a tonne of plates lately and can easily let this be, or let it play out. What you think?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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Maybe she dosent want to date coworkers. Just continue to be friendly. I wouldn't try to date her since you work with her
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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She feels awkward as hell because a dude she is attracted to who she never really knew in person before now works with her. So yeah, she is shy about it. I would say she still wants it though.
 

foreverAFC

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she might have a bf
 
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