"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl acting odd out of the blue

itishe

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I started a job a month or so ago. One of the girls there asked me if I had a class at a local university, I said that I did and she goes on to tell me that she noticed me in there. Friendly chatter at work for a week or so then she creeps me on facebook. She adds me and sends me a message which is flirty.

I ask if she wants to go get a beer, we go out. We ended up going on a couple more dates. Kiss closed on the second one.

I don't text with her often but in the beginning her texts were very interested/lengthier. Now her texts are more to the point and not so much open ended. When we're at work/class she's not like this, she's chatty and flirty. It's been about two weeks since we hung out, granted we've been busy with exams, etc. but I've tried to hang out with her two times since the last time. Each time it just kinda gets brushed off and she doesn't counter with anything.

Not a big deal to me just curious what the best "play" here is. I was thinking being friendly but going about my business. She saves me a spot in class so I figure blow it off and just go sit else where, at work say "hi" but focus on my job, etc. Feels like it's lopsided in her favor to set things up so I figure withdraw and move on is the best.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i believe you just pull out, she is getting bored because nothing has really happened you guys and we all know that the thing girls love the most is having fun. you havent lost her yet you just need to kinda make her pvssy wet again which would be pulling out
 

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demezel said:
i believe you just pull out, she is getting bored because nothing has really happened you guys and we all know that the thing girls love the most is having fun. you havent lost her yet you just need to kinda make her pvssy wet again which would be pulling out
Care to explain the bolded part? We havn't banged yet but its' hard when can't meet up.
 

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If you're looking for a serious thing, then move on and don't look back.

If not looking for serious relationship, then you have to get her excited again because she's losing interest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She sent me a text this morning, "do you work tonight." to which I didn't reply.

Saw her at work did my thing she talked with me but I kept it brief and moved onto other things. Tomorrow I have class with her. She saves me a spot, should I not sit next to her? Seems kinda ****ish. If I do I'll turn down a ride from her though.
 
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