"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl Across the street

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Hello all,

I know I am not 25, but im 20 so that is close enough. I am not going to ask my question in the high school area.

Across the street from where I work is a salon with some very pretty women working there. One day after work, I went and got a haircut. After getting my hair washed, my salon person and i got to talking and she said that one of her co-workers is really cool and I should stop in and meet her. A couple days later I stopped in to get some gel and I actually got to see her and talk to her for a minute. I wasnt really able to talk too long since I was on my lunch break, and I needed to get back to work. She seems cool, but I am not sure how to go around to talking to her and not getting another haircut, or seeming desparate.

What do all of the DJs in the forum have to say to help me out?

I would also like to say hello to everyone in this forum. I hope to be around a while.

Medic
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She seems cool, but I am not sure how to go around to talking to her and not getting another haircut, or seeming desparate."



why, did ur hair stop growing? you got a life time supply of gel? can't pop in to say "need just chill here for a while". Can't burst in, walk up to the girl, smile and say "hey, your free this friday?"

Problem here is you must have read something here about "looking desparate" that you can't define the boundaries anymore.

you want her? go get her. All u have to do now is to sit down with a pen and write this topic, "how do i get this girl" and make a long list. once u figured out all the possiblities, pick a few to execute. DO IT. GO GO goooo, time is wasting

and pick up your balls off the ground while u at it. :crackup:
 
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