“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl Across the street

MedicMan55

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Hello all,

I know I am not 25, but im 20 so that is close enough. I am not going to ask my question in the high school area.

Across the street from where I work is a salon with some very pretty women working there. One day after work, I went and got a haircut. After getting my hair washed, my salon person and i got to talking and she said that one of her co-workers is really cool and I should stop in and meet her. A couple days later I stopped in to get some gel and I actually got to see her and talk to her for a minute. I wasnt really able to talk too long since I was on my lunch break, and I needed to get back to work. She seems cool, but I am not sure how to go around to talking to her and not getting another haircut, or seeming desparate.

What do all of the DJs in the forum have to say to help me out?

I would also like to say hello to everyone in this forum. I hope to be around a while.

Medic
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Evangenlion

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"She seems cool, but I am not sure how to go around to talking to her and not getting another haircut, or seeming desparate."



why, did ur hair stop growing? you got a life time supply of gel? can't pop in to say "need just chill here for a while". Can't burst in, walk up to the girl, smile and say "hey, your free this friday?"

Problem here is you must have read something here about "looking desparate" that you can't define the boundaries anymore.

you want her? go get her. All u have to do now is to sit down with a pen and write this topic, "how do i get this girl" and make a long list. once u figured out all the possiblities, pick a few to execute. DO IT. GO GO goooo, time is wasting

and pick up your balls off the ground while u at it. :crackup:
 
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