"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes, I mean, the only ads are the ones for gay men to use.

All I can think is that's where a woman would have to research them.

Wherever the gay men would use the service, surely some of the 'servicemen for hire' would be bisexual.
Maybe. I think it works out if a one woman have a boytoy aka gigolo and pays him, it can easily spread the word among other older ladies that he can fvck them good and thats how they hire them. Also, dance bear shows. Who knows really
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe. I think it works out if a one woman have a boytoy aka gigolo and pays him, it can easily spread the word among other older ladies that he can fvck them good and thats how they hire them. Also, dance bear shows. Who knows really
Ya, women don't help other women like that. I've never heard women bragging about men, they're usually silent on a man's ability that way.

The concept of any hooking is you're paying them to leave, not stay. lol

Or else a woman could just go into a crowded male room and ask for sex.

Its getting them to leave that would be tricky. lol
 

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Exactly, that's why I opened this thread because I'm amazed how rare it is. Heck even swingers are more common than gigolos.
Gigolos started dying off with the advent of the internet and almost completely died off with social media and OLD.

The only type of gigolos these days are the ones that work with/for matchmaking services. Yes there are women that do pay matchmaking services to pair them up with a good guy surprisingly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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