Gigolo

[Romanemp22]

So as the name says, what are your opinions on gigolos? By definition gigolo is a man who is financially supported by an older women to be her lover or escort. Do you know anyone who has done that? Some say they are a male version of a gold digger. I also heard a story about a young man in Budapest who was banging 5 to 10 older ladies, some milfs, for serious cash.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

My opinion is it is very unmanly to be financially supported by anyone other than yourself.

 

[Romanemp22]

My opinion is it is very unmanly to be financially supported by anyone other than yourself.

I agree but it's fascinating because the gigolo thing is very rare and man who do it doesnt want to speak about it. Banging chicks for money, it's like a full time job for them.

 

[RangerMIke]

Gigolos understand women better than your average man. It is a myth that gigolos only go after old rich women, this only gets the most attention because millions are involved... and those who might inherent from her make such a big deal out of it. The only reason why we do not have just as many gigolos as 'gold-diggers' is because most women understand men: only a small percentage of men really understand women.

Anyway, I know A LOT of men that use women to their advantage it's just not in the 'millions' they live free on her dime, use her car, etc etc.... eventually the women figure this out and they hit back hard. Men typically are slow to figure out they are being used, and when they do... they blame themselves, are a little embarrassed by it, and then move on. Either that, or men just don't give a fvck... it's a legitimate exchange, he gets what he wants: she gets what she wants... and he sees this as a fair exchange. Women OTOH, seldom blame themselves for anything.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I agree but it's fascinating because the gigolo thing is very rare and man who do it doesnt want to speak about it. Banging chicks for money, it's like a full time job for them.

I mean it's no different than being a high end female escort I guess in that way.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Gigolos understand women better than your average man. It is a myth that gigolos only go after old rich women, this only gets the most attention because millions are involved... and those who might inherent from her make such a big deal out of it. The only reason why we do not have just as many gigolos as 'gold-diggers' is because most women understand men: only a small percentage of men really understand women.

Anyway, I know A LOT of men that use women to their advantage it's just not in the 'millions' they live free on her dime, use her car, etc etc.... eventually the women figure this out and they hit back hard. Men typically are slow to figure out they are being used, and when they do... they blame themselves, are a little embarrassed by it, and then move on. Either that, or men just don't give a fvck... it's a legitimate exchange, he gets what he wants: she gets what she wants... and he sees this as a fair exchange. Women OTOH, seldom blame themselves for anything.

I admit I don't understand women still and honestly doubt I ever will. I just have fvcked up enough times and made adjustments enough times to see what works and what doesn't through trial and error. It was really difficult at first for me to find a happy medium...I tended to always overcorrect.

For instance if I wasn't being sexual enough on dates after I analyzed where I was going wrong, I would overcorrect and be way too sexual for a first date and screw it up that way just as bad. Took me a while to find the sweet spot that works for me.

Some of the stuff makes sense on some level but honestly most of it really doesn't. And that is the conundrum...guys trying to use logic to figure out why women do things that have no logic to them.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I admit I don't understand women still and honestly doubt I ever will. I just have fvcked up enough times and made adjustments enough times to see what works and what doesn't through trial and error. It was really difficult at first for me to find a happy medium...I tended to always overcorrect.

For instance if I wasn't being sexual enough on dates after I analyzed where I was going wrong, I would overcorrect and be way too sexual for a first date and screw it up that way just as bad. Took me a while to find the sweet spot that works for me.

Some of the stuff makes sense on some level but honestly most of it really doesn't. And that is the conundrum...guys trying to use logic to figure out why women do things that have no logic to them.

It don't take too long to notice if a babe is HOT for you. That's an easy "logic" to stay with. Then notice if she's coming to you, if she's into you. If she's making it easy.

 

[Lookatu]

My backyard neighbor is probably one. He retired 12 years earlier than his wife and had her keep working. He clearly has a higher SMV than her. I'm pretty sure he also has some mind control over her. She even mows the lawn and the last time I talked to him, he told me she drives the RV most of the time on trips. LOL

 

[Romanemp22]

As I stated, I heard about that guy in Budapest. He was also very young when doing it. Some say that gigolo can live two lifes basically. Some are even married like lookatu said and do it, maybe for money or maybe for the thrill and excitement.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

As I stated, I heard about that guy in Budapest. He was also very young when doing it. Some say that gigolo can live two lifes basically. Some are even married like lookatu said and do it, maybe for money or maybe for the thrill and excitement.

LOL. Married just like females who do it.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I posted this thread recently.

HB 6 offering to pay for a return flight to sleep with me

OUTCOME: Just landed back home. The trip went great. I think she knew I had a "reputation" and wanted to be discreet, outside the knowledge of her current colleagues in medicine. She was a virgin and probably wanted to get it over with. She paid for the room, food and return flights. Got my...

www.sosuave.net

This girl sent me 500 bucks to fly over to sleep with her. It basically covered flight expenses and then some.

This happened this month at a point where I sometimes screw 2 or 3 plain jane HB-5-6s in a day.

She understands that I'm popular and out of her league. She's maybe a 6.

She realises I won't even bother sleeping with her no strings attached.

But, she also realises my reputation as a player and is possibly thinking of this as a meaningless fling to get OVER her slump.

This is a way rich and usually below average women can objectify men for quick gratification.

 

[Romanemp22]

I posted this thread recently.

HB 6 offering to pay for a return flight to sleep with me

OUTCOME: Just landed back home. The trip went great. I think she knew I had a "reputation" and wanted to be discreet, outside the knowledge of her current colleagues in medicine. She was a virgin and probably wanted to get it over with. She paid for the room, food and return flights. Got my...

www.sosuave.net

This girl sent me 500 bucks to fly over to sleep with her. It basically covered flight expenses and then some.

This happened this month at a point where I sometimes screw 2 or 3 plain jane HB-5-6s in a day.

She understands that I'm popular and out of her league. She's maybe a 6.

She realises I won't even bother sleeping with her no strings attached.

But, she also realises my reputation as a player and is possibly thinking of this as a meaningless fling to get OVER her slump.

This is a way rich and usually below average women can objectify men for quick gratification.

And what was her reaction when you rejected her proposition?

 

[darksprezzatura]

And what was her reaction when you rejected her proposition?

who said I rejected her offer?

 

[Romanemp22]

who said I rejected her offer?

Did you go? Was she treating you like God?

 

[darksprezzatura]

Did you go? Was she treating you like God?

Flying next week

 

[Lynx nkaf]

my opinion on gigolos is its definitely something no woman would openly admit she's paying for and instead would let people believe she attracted naturally.

A woman would probably withdraw her money and interest if she knew she was being discussed on an internet forum.


With men, there is lower anti-slut defense for them to pay for hookers. Men are so good at laughing off their own antislut defense or even caring what others think.
The preselection and social proof in paying for a hooker far outweighs any potential moral shame.

I bet the best gigolos are the discreet ones.

 

[Romanemp22]

my opinion on gigolos is its definitely something no woman would openly admit she's paying for and instead would let people believe she attracted naturally.

A woman would probably withdraw her money and interest if she knew she was being discussed on an internet forum.


With men, there is lower anti-slut defense for them to pay for hookers. Men are so good at laughing off their own antislut defense or even caring what others think.
The preselection and social proof in paying for a hooker far outweighs any potential moral shame.

I bet the best gigolos are the discreet ones.

True. I also know man who don't give two sh1ts if it's not masculine to get a woman pay you everything. Some even live like that, lazy or doesn't want to work. Gigolos tend to take discreet to a another level.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

True. I also know man who don't give two sh1ts if it's not masculine to get a woman pay you everything. Some even live like that, lazy or doesn't want to work. Gigolos tend to take discreet to a another level.

Man, they're so discreet, I wouldn't know what to tell a woman looking for one.

That's what Patrick Swayze's character did in the movie Dirty Dancing, right?

Or that movie with the hotel concierge that kept women company in the movie The Grand Budapest Hotel

 

[Romanemp22]

Man, they're so discreet, I wouldn't know what to tell a woman looking for one.

That's what Patrick Swayze's character did in the movie Dirty Dancing, right?

Or that movie with the hotel concierge that kept women company in the movie The Grand Budapest Hotel

Exactly, that's why I opened this thread because I'm amazed how rare it is. Heck even swingers are more common than gigolos.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Exactly, that's why I opened this thread because I'm amazed how rare it is. Heck even swingers are more common than gigolos.

yes, I mean, the only ads are the ones for gay men to use.

All I can think is that's where a woman would have to research them.

Wherever the gay men would use the service, surely some of the 'servicemen for hire' would be bisexual.