Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Gift of The Gab

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I actually did sales a while back.

It was really really difficult at first, knocking at doors and offering products knowing that they'll slam the door back at my face, but after a while it was smooth as butter.

And yes, now that you mentioned it, it was that period of time where I actually got the temporary golden season.

:D But is there anyway to maintain that?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I just confided in my mate in this.

Well. Turns out I'm not the only one suffering from this.

He says that many people at certain point of their lives find that they're shut out for a while.

But he does not understand why.

Anyone?
 

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Well. Kinda an update on things.

have been skipping school a little. and you guys ought to know about the back story anyway.

Well, in my school, we're sort of banded into different classes, and weirdly and strangely they put me up in a pretty good class, away from all my previous friends. At first, all was find, I would go and hang out with my friends. however, kinda got sick of it a little, and added up with the stress of studies here in my country, I felt myself losing alot of my previous confidence and my narcissistic self.

I know, most of you would say that confidence was just ego. I would agree with you. But it made me feel good, in a way. It was like a shell to cover up for my faults, and lack of confidence.

Well, now, seems to me that I'm unable to talk to my classmates, as they're always on the newest game or the algebra equation, while I'm more interested in the sports. Kinda left out a little in class, and because of that my former self faded away and now I feel hard pressed to even talk to my previous friends.

Anyway with any new solutions?
 

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:cool: Be Funny But Dont Give A Shyt If She Laughs Or Not

If Your Laughing Thats All That Matters (prizeability)
Be Loud And Arrogant If The Situation Calls For It (****y)
But Dont Forget To Pull Out Some Five Sillable Words(intelligence)
And Look Deep Into The Eyes (sincerity)
Get The Close Sale(determined Man)
Good Luck
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It aint all about girls here though.

Would be weird doing it to my friends.
 
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