"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I actually did sales a while back.

It was really really difficult at first, knocking at doors and offering products knowing that they'll slam the door back at my face, but after a while it was smooth as butter.

And yes, now that you mentioned it, it was that period of time where I actually got the temporary golden season.

:D But is there anyway to maintain that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I just confided in my mate in this.

Well. Turns out I'm not the only one suffering from this.

He says that many people at certain point of their lives find that they're shut out for a while.

But he does not understand why.

Anyone?
 

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Well. Kinda an update on things.

have been skipping school a little. and you guys ought to know about the back story anyway.

Well, in my school, we're sort of banded into different classes, and weirdly and strangely they put me up in a pretty good class, away from all my previous friends. At first, all was find, I would go and hang out with my friends. however, kinda got sick of it a little, and added up with the stress of studies here in my country, I felt myself losing alot of my previous confidence and my narcissistic self.

I know, most of you would say that confidence was just ego. I would agree with you. But it made me feel good, in a way. It was like a shell to cover up for my faults, and lack of confidence.

Well, now, seems to me that I'm unable to talk to my classmates, as they're always on the newest game or the algebra equation, while I'm more interested in the sports. Kinda left out a little in class, and because of that my former self faded away and now I feel hard pressed to even talk to my previous friends.

Anyway with any new solutions?
 

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:cool: Be Funny But Dont Give A Shyt If She Laughs Or Not

If Your Laughing Thats All That Matters (prizeability)
Be Loud And Arrogant If The Situation Calls For It (****y)
But Dont Forget To Pull Out Some Five Sillable Words(intelligence)
And Look Deep Into The Eyes (sincerity)
Get The Close Sale(determined Man)
Good Luck
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It aint all about girls here though.

Would be weird doing it to my friends.
 
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