"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zekko said:
Regarding lying,
I do not advocate lying in your communication. As mentioned in an earlier Jophil thread, you have to look a little deeper at the dynamics at play. Take into consideration the age demographics of this girl is between 21-27.

Look at the covert methodology at play.


HB: What do you drive?
What kind of style/wealth do you have?


Prize: I don't drive.
I don't feed into your qualifying.


HB: Why not?
Why not?

Prize: I don't need to.
I don't need to.

HB: How do you get around?
Let me try this a different way.

Prize: Sweetheart, there are two types of people out there. Some who drive and others who are driven. The question is what do you drive?
Sweetheart, the purpose of this date is to see if you meet the baseline requirements for a second date. It's not important how much wealth or what style I possess, but rather what you bring to the table.


HB: An SUV
Interesting.

Prize: What year and kind?
Let the games begin.

HB: Umm, 2003 Cherokee, but I am getting a new one soon.
I hope this is not damaging.

It is not what you say that creates a rapport but rather the underlying dynamics at work.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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slowly but surely I'm learning, a text exchange


Me: You awake?
HB: No
Me: Hey you
HB: I think u secretly love that I'm a challenge :)
Me: Now being "scared" is a "challenge" wow easy on the cool aid babygirl
HB: Pardon me?! I'm not scared to meetchu. I have plans
me: ugh huh suuuuuuuuurrrrrrreeeeeee
HB: Ur an ass, That's probably y I like u
 
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