"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Daniel1099

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its my girlfriends birthday, and we have been dating for a month exactly.


when it was my birthday she bought me some underwear (as a joke) and a leather bracelt from american eagle. and then she wrote me a letter and stuff...this was before we were goin out,...but it has been a month now.

whats a good idea?

i already decorated her car with toilet paper, and wrote on her mirros, and put hershys kisses everywhere when she was cheerleading at an away game... and she loved it.

but i want to get her something material like because she did for me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bible_Belt

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whats a good idea?


When talks about what she likes, listen and remember. Give her little things that show that you know her. These are often inexpensive items, yet can be very effective gifts.
 

I'm in the Mood

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get her a small ring or some flowers. or even some nice chocolates!
try to keep it simple and not spend too much on her.

I'd have to say though, the best gifts are the ones that you make up; the non-material ones. if you're clever enough she'll probably treasure those the most.
 

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some flowers. or some nice chocolates, Do you think would she be happy?
 

penkitten

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i like chocolate cake.
my birthday is the 4th of july.
no one ever gets me chocolate cake.
just the ones that look like flags with sparklers in them.

i suggest you buy her a chocolate cake for her birthday.
it's an edible material.... and very tasty.

dang, now i am hungry.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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baby123

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Maybe you give some flowers or something else she likes. If she likes pets,but she doen't own one since now .A pet (maybe a small dog ) is your good choice.Hope you have a wonderful dating!
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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Some cheap, safe, female-friendly gift suggestions:

-A book she's interested in, or a nice, hardcover version of her favorite novel
-A nice mug and some tea
-A picture frame
-Gloves/mittens
-A scarf
-Chocolates molded into cute shapes
-A novelty bookmark
-Wall art to her taste (vintage print, etc.)
-Set of tea lights with candle holders
-Coffee thermos/mug with coffee beans
-A journal w/ pen
-Address book w/ pen
-Gift certificate to a day spa (you can get some cheap deals on this)
-A set of bath salts and lotion...girls love bath crap =P
-DVD of her favorite band in concert
-A pocket calender
-Slippers
-Cellphone charm

That should keep you set for a few years =P
 
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