"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gift Ideas**

Daniel1099

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its my girlfriends birthday, and we have been dating for a month exactly.


when it was my birthday she bought me some underwear (as a joke) and a leather bracelt from american eagle. and then she wrote me a letter and stuff...this was before we were goin out,...but it has been a month now.

whats a good idea?

i already decorated her car with toilet paper, and wrote on her mirros, and put hershys kisses everywhere when she was cheerleading at an away game... and she loved it.

but i want to get her something material like because she did for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bible_Belt

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whats a good idea?


When talks about what she likes, listen and remember. Give her little things that show that you know her. These are often inexpensive items, yet can be very effective gifts.
 

I'm in the Mood

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get her a small ring or some flowers. or even some nice chocolates!
try to keep it simple and not spend too much on her.

I'd have to say though, the best gifts are the ones that you make up; the non-material ones. if you're clever enough she'll probably treasure those the most.
 

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some flowers. or some nice chocolates, Do you think would she be happy?
 

penkitten

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i like chocolate cake.
my birthday is the 4th of july.
no one ever gets me chocolate cake.
just the ones that look like flags with sparklers in them.

i suggest you buy her a chocolate cake for her birthday.
it's an edible material.... and very tasty.

dang, now i am hungry.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Maybe you give some flowers or something else she likes. If she likes pets,but she doen't own one since now .A pet (maybe a small dog ) is your good choice.Hope you have a wonderful dating!
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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Some cheap, safe, female-friendly gift suggestions:

-A book she's interested in, or a nice, hardcover version of her favorite novel
-A nice mug and some tea
-A picture frame
-Gloves/mittens
-A scarf
-Chocolates molded into cute shapes
-A novelty bookmark
-Wall art to her taste (vintage print, etc.)
-Set of tea lights with candle holders
-Coffee thermos/mug with coffee beans
-A journal w/ pen
-Address book w/ pen
-Gift certificate to a day spa (you can get some cheap deals on this)
-A set of bath salts and lotion...girls love bath crap =P
-DVD of her favorite band in concert
-A pocket calender
-Slippers
-Cellphone charm

That should keep you set for a few years =P
 
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