Ok, my new girlfriend leaves at the end of this week for summerschool on the east coast (she's incredibly intelligent). So yeah, I want to get her something sweet so she'll remember me when she's gone (she'll be gone for like a month). So far, her friends said maybe a hoodie, necklace, blanket, or something i made myself....i really have no clue, and i don't have much time. Any ideas guys?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Gift ideas?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
OK man...sorry noone is replying to your thread. I just wanted to offer support. I regret to say though that I don't really have an answer for you here.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Generally speaking, the gift should be very unique and related to your girl. Jewelry is way cliche and over used, as is perfume and stuff like that.
THe one idea I've had in my head for a few years, but never quite got to use, is a charm bracelet. The things aren't terribly expensive, and you can find some charms that relate to just the two of you. If you guys had a sweet time at a concert, theres charms with music. If shes madly in love with dancing, theres dancing things, etc.
This is one gift idea that can be totally customized so that you avoid the "generic" gift
THe one idea I've had in my head for a few years, but never quite got to use, is a charm bracelet. The things aren't terribly expensive, and you can find some charms that relate to just the two of you. If you guys had a sweet time at a concert, theres charms with music. If shes madly in love with dancing, theres dancing things, etc.
This is one gift idea that can be totally customized so that you avoid the "generic" gift
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
give her your dirty boxers that has your smell on it...not good sexy cologne smell...but YOUR SMELL
im sure shell remember you forever
im sure shell remember you forever
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
hah Great minds think like meMrS said:
Another gift idea could be just as simple as a card with a custom message in it. Something you wrote and something that applies to just the both of you, maybe an inside joke or something.