Ok, my new girlfriend leaves at the end of this week for summerschool on the east coast (she's incredibly intelligent). So yeah, I want to get her something sweet so she'll remember me when she's gone (she'll be gone for like a month). So far, her friends said maybe a hoodie, necklace, blanket, or something i made myself....i really have no clue, and i don't have much time. Any ideas guys?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Gift ideas?
- Thread starter Lukef29
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
OK man...sorry noone is replying to your thread. I just wanted to offer support. I regret to say though that I don't really have an answer for you here.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Generally speaking, the gift should be very unique and related to your girl. Jewelry is way cliche and over used, as is perfume and stuff like that.
THe one idea I've had in my head for a few years, but never quite got to use, is a charm bracelet. The things aren't terribly expensive, and you can find some charms that relate to just the two of you. If you guys had a sweet time at a concert, theres charms with music. If shes madly in love with dancing, theres dancing things, etc.
This is one gift idea that can be totally customized so that you avoid the "generic" gift
THe one idea I've had in my head for a few years, but never quite got to use, is a charm bracelet. The things aren't terribly expensive, and you can find some charms that relate to just the two of you. If you guys had a sweet time at a concert, theres charms with music. If shes madly in love with dancing, theres dancing things, etc.
This is one gift idea that can be totally customized so that you avoid the "generic" gift
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
give her your dirty boxers that has your smell on it...not good sexy cologne smell...but YOUR SMELL
im sure shell remember you forever
im sure shell remember you forever
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
hah Great minds think like meMrS said:
Another gift idea could be just as simple as a card with a custom message in it. Something you wrote and something that applies to just the both of you, maybe an inside joke or something.