"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gift for the Girlfriend

ChapStick

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So I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year, and I really never bought anything for her except a necklace for her birthday and a teddy bear for valentines day. She has bought me candy, electronics, clothes, expensive hair and skin products (she's a cosmetologist), etc... I was just sitting in my room thinking about how much she has done for me, and how little I do for her.

The problem is... I'm a cheap ass, and I hate spending money. Any ideas of anything to get the girlfriend that she would think is sweet for under $20? lol She has had a stressful week and I've been hanging out with my friends all the time and been blowing her off, and I just want her to see that even though I spend time with my friends, that she still means something to me.

Btw, thank all you guys for all your help over the years. I honestly have become very confident and comfortable with myself. I see confidence in this game as not thinking you can get with any woman out there, but I see confidence as even if you get turned down, you won't care because you know who you are, and it sucks for her that she can't see how amazing you are =)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bukowski_merit

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ChapStick said:
She has had a stressful week and I've been hanging out with my friends all the time and been blowing her off, and I just want her to see that even though I spend time with my friends, that she still means something to me.
A bottle of wine (if you're legal - most women like reisling in the summer time)...
Some massage oils (or baby oil) to give her a massage...
and one hell of a passionate night...

beats the sh!t out of a $20 necklace...

if you treat her that bad - she probably has abandonment fears... a night like this will work wonders on her emotions...
 

Joe Stud

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go to walmart, jewelry counter. look in the CLEARANCE window (red tags). you can get her a real gold bracelet for $50-75. she will friggin glow at that. you will get great dividends, and it reminds her of you for years to cume
 

romangod

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A nice greeting card and a cute stuffed animal.



Cheers!
 

horaholic

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Its more about the effort you put in, than the money you spend. You can surprise her with a bed full of rose petals, and full body massages, (if you dont consider that AFC, lol) and whatever else you can imagine. She will remember that for the rest of her life. Give her an EXPERIENCE, not a gift. DO something, dont buy something.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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