"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GF's friends attracted to you

Ojete

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Hey DJ friends, i have some questions you may encounter while djing. Do you often feel some of your gf's friends are attracted to you? how do you react? do you tell her joking? I notice i have some great rapport with some of my girl friends and they make a lot of EC with me, i notice it a lot. One of them told my gf, before we were together, that she was attracted to me. I play C&F a lo with them, i think that has called their attention a lot over time. I don´t give too much importance but i'd like to know your stories / opinions.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JJMcLure

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You are social proofed pretty well because they trust their friends taste. So you more or less get a stamp of approval as a dateable guy right there, unless you prove otherwise.

Also, chicks are competitive, they want what the other girl has - to prove they can have it if nothing else. Therefore proving they are as desirable as the other girl. Applies within circles of friends too.
 

Trapspringer

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Originally posted by JJMcLure
You are social proofed pretty well because they trust their friends taste. So you more or less get a stamp of approval as a dateable guy right there, unless you prove otherwise.

Also, chicks are competitive, they want what the other girl has - to prove they can have it if nothing else. Therefore proving they are as desirable as the other girl. Applies within circles of friends too.
Yep.
 

WatchMeWalk

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And the epiphany award goes to JJ.

Women treat life like some cosmic popularity contest.
 
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