"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GF's friends attracted to you

Ojete

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Hey DJ friends, i have some questions you may encounter while djing. Do you often feel some of your gf's friends are attracted to you? how do you react? do you tell her joking? I notice i have some great rapport with some of my girl friends and they make a lot of EC with me, i notice it a lot. One of them told my gf, before we were together, that she was attracted to me. I play C&F a lo with them, i think that has called their attention a lot over time. I don´t give too much importance but i'd like to know your stories / opinions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JJMcLure

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You are social proofed pretty well because they trust their friends taste. So you more or less get a stamp of approval as a dateable guy right there, unless you prove otherwise.

Also, chicks are competitive, they want what the other girl has - to prove they can have it if nothing else. Therefore proving they are as desirable as the other girl. Applies within circles of friends too.
 

Trapspringer

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Originally posted by JJMcLure
You are social proofed pretty well because they trust their friends taste. So you more or less get a stamp of approval as a dateable guy right there, unless you prove otherwise.

Also, chicks are competitive, they want what the other girl has - to prove they can have it if nothing else. Therefore proving they are as desirable as the other girl. Applies within circles of friends too.
Yep.
 

WatchMeWalk

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And the epiphany award goes to JJ.

Women treat life like some cosmic popularity contest.
 
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