"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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GF's friends attracted to you

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Ojete

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Hey DJ friends, i have some questions you may encounter while djing. Do you often feel some of your gf's friends are attracted to you? how do you react? do you tell her joking? I notice i have some great rapport with some of my girl friends and they make a lot of EC with me, i notice it a lot. One of them told my gf, before we were together, that she was attracted to me. I play C&F a lo with them, i think that has called their attention a lot over time. I don´t give too much importance but i'd like to know your stories / opinions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JJMcLure

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You are social proofed pretty well because they trust their friends taste. So you more or less get a stamp of approval as a dateable guy right there, unless you prove otherwise.

Also, chicks are competitive, they want what the other girl has - to prove they can have it if nothing else. Therefore proving they are as desirable as the other girl. Applies within circles of friends too.
 
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Originally posted by JJMcLure
You are social proofed pretty well because they trust their friends taste. So you more or less get a stamp of approval as a dateable guy right there, unless you prove otherwise.

Also, chicks are competitive, they want what the other girl has - to prove they can have it if nothing else. Therefore proving they are as desirable as the other girl. Applies within circles of friends too.
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Yep.
 
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And the epiphany award goes to JJ.

Women treat life like some cosmic popularity contest.
 
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