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GF's b day-gift ideas???

frivolousz21

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as you know Ive been with her for 2 months.

today is her 21st B-day....we are going out to some restuarant cafe by her house and drinking some free bottle of wine she won.

I love drinking :)


anyways I dont know what to get her for her b day.

so here is what I came up with..a promise ring and....IM JK im not that fycking sappy.

so I decided a card from Hallmark from the new love section and a gift card from Victoria Secret..maybe 40-50 bucks???

wat do u all think??
 

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im glad u was joking when u said that promise ring, just 2 months of being together is too early, im planning in doing that for the 1yr anniversary if everything goes like its supposed to.
 

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hell yea I was joking.

Ive come to this:

card
then ill write something personal in there to her
and teh VS gift card for 50 bucks...sounds reasonable to me.
 

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lol kinda cheap but yeah, i guess its ok
 

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I dont think getting her a card and making a personal one and a 50 dollar gift card and going out to eat is cheap.

for 2 months
 

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hey fri,is this the same girl that you said in one of my threads that you only talk to her once a day? cause for 2 months i think that yall should talk more than once a day...but anyway.

I didnt know yall were going out for dinner, it sounds good then.

A $50 gift card

A B-day card with some words to the heart written bu you to her

Dinner (i believe you paying for it correct?)

Thats good, although to finish it off you should give her some dik at the end of the night. thats a most too.
 

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fyck yea thats a must!

here is the final plan.


I am giving her:

a card made be me at work..I work at a digital photo lab

a pack of this glossy paper she wants with the gift card inside it :)

and the dinner thing.

that better suffice and a something lata :)
 

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As long as it's presented in a pretty bag and has a ribbon on it, chicks will love anything.

It's not the gift that's important.
It's the presentation.

Chicks are suckers for 'pretties'
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
as you know Ive been with her for 2 months.

today is her 21st B-day....we are going out to some restuarant cafe by her house and drinking some free bottle of wine she won.

I love drinking :)


anyways I dont know what to get her for her b day.

so here is what I came up with..a promise ring and....IM JK im not that fycking sappy.

so I decided a card from Hallmark from the new love section and a gift card from Victoria Secret..maybe 40-50 bucks???

wat do u all think??
My gf's birthday is on sunday. I don't think I'm getting her anything. We dated a month and have been exclusive a month after that.

I have this rule where i don't buy presents for "present giving" holidays because it's ridiculous that i'm EXPECTED to give things. It just creates undue pressure and creates threads like these. I'd rather give random presents when i feel like it out of the blue so they're big surprises and stuff. I also tell people not to buy me things for holidays either.

My mom won't listen and is like "whatever" though she doesn't get crap from me on xmas, etc.

I told my gf about this a while ago and her response was "YES! YES!" and was all happy about it. Pressure off her too :)

No one wants most of the crap people give as presents anyway. I'd rather surprise people out of no where with free tickets to things or something i happened upon i thought she'd really like rather than whatever crap i managed to throw together for a birthday or vday because i'm "supposed to."
 
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